loving Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 im having a problm deciding to act. im not comfortable enough to push myself over that initial pain threshold. all my experiences of when i did do it turned out wonderfully but ive got some sort of investment somewhere that just cripples me. ive tried to take in all the advice ive been given and its come to the point where i cant stand not acting anymore. so i give myself a choice "say something now or drop it" and so i always end up dropping it. i never end up doing it. this is the 2nd no choice option i've given myself. i used to say you have to do it now just do it and that didnt work either. they say dont think a thing and just do it but my mind always interrupts. at the sight of the girl my mind goes blank, at the opportunity to talk to her my mind starts talking to itself. i dont know if you will help but i have had these thoughts before and still no conclusion so i wonder if even writting them is a step in the right direction. i have an idea of where reality is supposed to go, as my next step is a pretty basic one, my problem is figuring out how to get there Link to post Share on other sites
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