PG102938 Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 Hello everyone, I'm a 20 year old guy, and I've only recently began looking for potential relationships. ------------------------- There's one girl that I am definitely attracted to, but I do not know if she is attracted to me! We are both very different and very similar. She's more extroverted and athletic than I am, but we are both far happier/smilier than everyone else and neither of us is overly serious. I don't know what she thinks of me. A couple months ago (before we were really friends) she broke up with her long-time boyfriends. She then proceeded to basically throw herself at one of my friends (who is very different than I am) but now there isn't really anything there either. What it comes down to is that we basically flirt a lot, but its not serious flirting. It will be like she'll put her arm around me or grab my hand (or, sometimes, though less often, i will do one of those things) and then we will walk around and jokingly flirt and other people will joke that we are a couple and it's fun. She also wants to go to the park with me. Other thing--even before what I just described became common everytime we put our arms around each other (we're both fairly physically affectionate) people we knew would make comments like "they're just too awkwardly happy, their relationship would never work." We've never actually kissed or anything like that. Finally there are a couple other girls that I also put my arms around, etc. all the time, but nobody ever comments on it or anything. So thats a difference. -------- So is there a chance? I'll also take advice on just about anything. I don't really know what I'm doing and I know that at this point I am overly likey to interpret everything as an opportunity for a relationship. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 -------- So is there a chance? I'll also take advice on just about anything. I don't really know what I'm doing and I know that at this point I am overly likey to interpret everything as an opportunity for a relationship. ! well, you need to step it up to serious flirting, making out, deep kissing, snogging and then see how she reacts...then you'll have your answer, innit? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 24, 2008 Share Posted November 24, 2008 I agree with alpha - it's way past time to make a move and kiss her. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted November 24, 2008 Share Posted November 24, 2008 It's obvious she likes you. Man up Link to post Share on other sites
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