shy girl!

[cooi_7]

ever since i started college, life was going as normal as any college students' life.

 

before i even knew that this one shy very nerdy girl existed.. whenever we crossed path i would noticed her glancing at me and whenever i noticed her doing that she would look down or away and pretend that she was looking at me(that's so obvious!). this got me curious about her, so this stare and constant eye contact went on for a couple of months then... i decided that it was time to go talk to her.

 

at first, i couldn't b/c i was to nervous but after some many attempts, i finally mustered up the courage to talk to her on a thursday morning. as i saw her pass me by, i yelled "hey" and surpriselingly she quickly turned and looked directly at me and said "hey." i didnt not know what to say so i used an excuse that i saw her at an event at school and i was meeting new people and didnt get the chance to meet her so i thought i just wanted to say hi. then i went on to asking her what type of asian she was and i started with asking her if she was korean and other types of asians etc.. but i couldn't correctly so she told me she was vietimese.

 

right then.. in return she ask me what type of asian was i and started by asking if i was korean and couldn't guess what type of asian i was and at the end.. she said "let me guess your an african murderer!" (*note: she was teasing in weird way i guess).

 

since she couldn't guess what type of asian i was, i decided to tell her.

 

then after a good 6 mins conversation, she asked me to explain what type of asian i was and why she never heard of "hmong." so i started telling her about the hmong and b4 long her friend showed up and i thought that it was time to leave.... fortunately she ended her converstaion with her friend and said "so you were saying about the hmong?" and i continue explaining to her about the hmong.

 

as we approached her classroom doors.. i mumbled "i guess i see you later" but fortunately she didnt hear that so she invited me into her class. surpriselingly, she asked me to sit right beside her, and happliy for the next 15 mins she introduced herself to me. although, i talked most of the time(probably like an idiot) for so unusual reason, she would smile with a pink face and not say a word. so after 10 more mins, i slowly quiet down and told myself it was time to leave, and left her after shaking hands with her

 

then one week later, while i was going to the student building i happened to stumble upon her and b4 i even got close enough to say hi or anything... she looked at me like she saw a ghost and took off. then one month later, while i was alone in the student buidling she came in and made eye contact with me until she sat down. she didnt sit facing me but she was there the until time that i was there, i SOOO wanted to talk to her but i couldn't...

 

*judging from this wouldn't YOU agree that she wasn't scared of me but probably left with that expression for another reason right-

 

I'M LOST AND CURIOUS ABOUT THIS B/C IT HAS BEEN ONE YEAR SINCE I ACTUALLY HAD THIS CONVERSATION WITH HER AND NOW AND THEN WHENEVER WE CROSSED PATH SHE WOULD TAKE OUT HER PHONE AND PRETEND LIKE SHE IS DOING SOMETHING, BUT WHENEVER WE ARE IN A BUILDING AND I AM NOT AWARE THAT SHE IS AROUND, SHE WOULD CONSTANTLY GLANCE AT ME UNTIL WE MAKE SOLID EYE CONTACT FOR AT LEAST 5-6 SECONDS, I WOULD TRY NOT TO LOOK AT HER TO MUCH... WHICH IM STUPID BUT YEAH IT IS SO CONFUSING...... PLZ FEEL FREE TO MAKE ANY SUGGESTIONS!

[windows]

what is wrong with you? if you're crazy about her (which sounds like you are) do something about it and get it over with. If you still feel there's something there; just strike up another damned conversation with her. She's shy; she's a little awkward but yet you're mad about her. Not exactly the type of girl who would take initiative. Just talk to her again; I'm sure it wouldn't be that hard. If she bolts; she's just super shy (The type that probably just wishes for the other person to take initiative).

Remember; you're over fretting things here. She's not the shy one here; you both are. Man up and do something or be stuck in a distracting college life. It sounds like she's consuming alot of your mind right now and the best thing to do is to end it. Talk to her; and do something. A conversation with some girl from a year ago that sticks in your head that you're constantly thinking about is not healthy. It's not going to end well if nothing happens. Don't worry about what anyone thinks; chances are they're going to forget the next day.

 

bottom line. Just do it

[Green]

well there are a few magic words you forgot to say to her like "lets go out some time" or "join me for dinner" or what ever... and then you get her number if she says yes. then you try to kiss her... tell me have you ever had a gf? seriously shes probably creeped out by you because you never made a move... if you want yell hey to her again and just ask her out instead of talking about all the dif types of asians.