Dexter Morgan Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 That's not what I mean at all. I'm saying that if you don't trust someone, get rid of them. There is no point is being in a relationship with someone who is shady. I read it wrong, you were talking about lacking both qualities in the relationship. I read fast and thought you meant both of them lack those things. My bad. BTW I love Dexter, just watched the latest episode. It's got me hooked! Me too. Miguel is sooooooo screwed. Ok, back to the thread, but really, its a done deal. She has snowed him and he is falling for it. Link to post Share on other sites
Fun2BMe Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 I feel I should point some things out. First of all she didn't technically spend his LAST night here with him. He shipped out Friday morning..Thursday was thanksgiving so wednesday was her last day to see him. She didn't go there with the intent to sleep over. She worked late and the only time she could get over there was 11. It's a long drive and she was really tired..and she fell asleep. She did tell me flat out she would of been upset if I did what she did..she says she completely understands why I'm mad. We've had several long talks and..I do believe she didn't do anything with him, although obviously she showed bad judgement. I know obviously there is a chance she did, but I have to take a leap of faith..and I'm going to, my gut is telling me that she did not do anything with him, I mean she didn't even have to say anything about it to me, I wouldn't of even known she was there. We have established boundaries..and we've talked about what is and isn't disrespectful. I've told her if anything suspicious happens again we are over for good. I know I'm taking a risk, but my gut is telling me that I should give this relationship a chance. I hope things work out, but whether or not they did anything (which I'm sure they did and that's my opinion), the fact that she would spend the night at a guy's place without telling you and you don't even know him - that alone is cheating - not physically but morally and ethically. Link to post Share on other sites
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