singlelife Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Hey, I like to date bi sexual women because I think women deserve to have a life of their own. Most women like this are open minded and understand to go have girls night and have her own friends seperate from mine (we don't have to share everything ya know). Anyway I am not jealous of this and I have 2 questions- 1. Why do guys trip off of this stufff 2. why do some women who are bi keep it a secret and not live their life holla Link to post Share on other sites
officegirl Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I'm not bisexual but I'll offer an opinion. I think it's important for each person in a relationship to have interests and time outside of their partner. I don't sleep with my girlfriends but I do value their company and enjoy it immensely. If what you're looking for is a girl who will do stuff without you, you're looking for an independent girl, not a bisexual one. Why do girls hide it? Maybe they don't want to deal with seeing that look of total perversion come across others faces. Guys for the most art are obsessed with lesbians. Are you sure that's not what you're looking for? Someone to satisfy your sexual desires? I ask that honestly. I make time quite frequently with my girlfriends and that has nothing to do with my sexuality. Now, you tell me. How can I get the boyfriend to stop "dropping in" on girl time? haha. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Your question isn't for women, "really" because you are asking men why they "trip off on that stuff." Which explains much of why some of us women DO hide our Lezzie relationships -- I don't want my time with women to be a jumping off point for a guy to think he's gonna get a threesome or watch what is intimately between me and another girl. It is about She and I, NOT about Him watching what we are doing. You have kinda answered your question, if you look at it. Link to post Share on other sites
amymarieca Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 I am a bisexual woman. I would never date a woman, I just play with them. To answer your second question: I never tell guys I am dating unless I know them really well. It's not that I am scared to live my life. I don't really care what anyone else thinks. The problem is that I have made the mistake of telling men before and automatically they think I am going to have a threesome with them. They just don't get the fact that my bisexuality has nothing to do with them and I don't want them involved. I am not opposed to threesomes either, because they are great, but if I want one, I will be the one to ask. Link to post Share on other sites
onlyicansee Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Maybe because many people, including myself, would feel that if your partner was sleeping with anyone, even someone of the same sex, it would be cheating. So, what your saying here is that your ok if a girl hooks up with your gf, but if a guy did it you would trip? I mean, how is your gf experiencing another man any different than her getting that experience with another woman? Im lost here... Link to post Share on other sites
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