dakotamaiden Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 hes a very busy guy works long hours , many days in a row. plus he has alot of male friends that want to spend time with him. he likes talking to me and tells me to call him. we talk mny hrs on phone . once a week. i really like him and he says he likes me. would you keep talking on phone hoping some day in the future we would be closer friends. it would be well worth it, sometimes i just want to be close to him now. i dont have much patients.. thanks for any comments.
norajane Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Does he ever call you? Or is it always you calling him? If it's always you calling him, forget him. If a guy is interested, no matter how busy he is, he will call you, he will ask you out, he will make the time for a date. Sounds like he's had plenty of opportunity to ask you out during your calls, and he hasn't. Time to move on.
Angel1111 Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 The first red flag is when a guy is obtuse enough to ask a woman to call him. This would turn me off completely. Busy guys will suddenly find a hole in their schedule when they meet a woman they want to be with. I recommend that you stop calling this guy.
Trialbyfire Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Yup, a guy who's into you, regardless of how busy he is, will make time for you and not just on the phone. You're either in the friendzone, or in the ego-stroking zone, if he knows you like him.
Author dakotamaiden Posted November 30, 2008 Author Posted November 30, 2008 iam pretty sure iam in the friend zone
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