LMFAO, My Ex insults me and my new Gf!

[WiseOne1]

So my ex and I have been on and off NC for months, we broke up 9 months ago, it was the typical story, she fell out of love with me.

 

Me and her were best friends 5 years before we hooked up so thats what made me our relationship strong. She got a new BF like a month later though. I've counted and I told her atlest 24 times that I didnt want to be friends and I think that her and her new BF should be best friends, and that she shouls focus on him and only him. Regardless of all the times I told her never to contact me again, she always does.

 

She says she misses me, but I told her she needed to work on her and her new bf, and dont worry about me, lol I know its minuplation, but I still love her as a friend so I dont wanna hurt her so thats why Im trying to turn her against me.

 

So tonite I started talking about a new future GF, and she got all mad and started to curse me out, and told me to stop talking about new gf!! She use to talk about her new bf 24/7 to me, thats what orginally made me wanna go NC.

 

I then told her that her new BF was a better man that I could ever be, and then she starts calling him a *******, and saying that she hasnt been happy with him everysince we broke up, she says she was happy with me, but not with him.

 

Bassically shes the one that wants to go NC, because she feels that its wrong for me to talk about new GF'S and then she started calling my new gf words, like "bitches" and such.

 

Lol What do I do about this, now I've moved on and ready to be friends, but know she wants to go NC.....

[Geishawhelk]

You go NC.

Simple.

[WiseOne1]

You go NC.

Simple.

 

Bassically I couldnt be friends while I wasnt over her, but now that Im over her, shes mad because Im over her.

[Geishawhelk]

There you go.

Stuff happens like this sometimes.

She didn't want you, but it looks as if she doesn't like the idea of anyone else wanting you.

She has no right name-calling ladies you're now connected with.

That's rude and disrespectful.

to both your current lady, and to you.

 

She's damage.

 

She might be damaged, too.

But right now, you don't need this kind of attitude.

So cut her off.

 

Go NC, and mean it.

You're obviously over it.

What she does, is up to her, but over it, she ain't.

So going NC is actually the biggest favour you could do for yourself.

 

Stay sane, be happy.

[WiseOne1]

There you go.

Stuff happens like this sometimes.

She didn't want you, but it looks as if she doesn't like the idea of anyone else wanting you.

She has no right name-calling ladies you're now connected with.

That's rude and disrespectful.

to both your current lady, and to you.

 

She's damage.

 

She might be damaged, too.

But right now, you don't need this kind of attitude.

So cut her off.

 

Go NC, and mean it.

You're obviously over it.

What she does, is up to her, but over it, she ain't.

So going NC is actually the biggest favour you could do for yourself.

 

Stay sane, be happy.

 

So your saying that shes not over me? Because once im over someone theres no way I can care about them and there new bf, I can care less, I know that from past ex's, I wish them the best luck.

 

So is this jealousy, or shes not over me? Or both?

[Geishawhelk]

wow, I'm sorry, you really need it spelling out?

 

She says she misses me...she starts calling him a *******, and saying that she hasnt been happy with him everysince we broke up, she says she was happy with me, but not with him.

 

 

What are you not getting, here....?

[WiseOne1]

wow, I'm sorry, you really need it spelling out?

 

 

 

What are you not getting, here....?

 

Lol but shes did this before, once she actually wanted to get back with me, but It only lasted for 1 day, she said that she still loved me, and wanted to get back together, and then the next day she went back to feeling that she didnt love me anymore.

 

Bassically she got really emotional and started crying and wanted me back, and it was because of the same reason, she got really hurt when she found out I was talking to this new gf.

[Surfer Dude]

Ditch her and go NC.

 

My ex (who dumped me for other guys) was constantly blabbering about her new boyfriends, which was extremely hurtful to me. I told her she should cut it out, but she just kept sending me their pics and whatever. She even wanted me to send her pics of my new girlfriends (which I didn't have, lol).

 

What a nutcase, I'm so glad I told her to f*ck off forever. You should do the same, stop being abused by an emotionally unstable person. Screw them. They broke up, they have lost their privilege to be part of our lives.

[EmperorR]

Ditch her and go NC.

 

My ex (who dumped me for other guys) was constantly blabbering about her new boyfriends, which was extremely hurtful to me. I told her she should cut it out, but she just kept sending me their pics and whatever. She even wanted me to send her pics of my new girlfriends (which I didn't have, lol).

 

What a nutcase, I'm so glad I told her to f*ck off forever. You should do the same, stop being abused by an emotionally unstable person. Screw them. They broke up, they have lost their privilege to be part of our lives.

 

 

same with my ex, hey I could have been friends, if every minute I wasn't being disrespected, going online and being messaged, "what does a guy mean if he says your awesome"

 

 

GO NC and stay NC

[Geishawhelk]

I echo Surfer Dude.

She's possessive, jealous and controlling.

 

You've done this before....?

Distance yourself...

How many times do you need to be 'bitten', before you then become 'shy'.....?

[TeaAbraham]

Perhaps she is just feeling her sense of control slip away, and she wants to have it back. I don't know if this is the issue with your ex, but I know it happens often. Now that she knows she can't have you she wants you even more, but then if you did give yourself to her (not that you would), she would then be in control of the situation again, and be able to choose between you and her new bf. I know I made the mistake of begging and pleading to my ex, and giving her that sense of control. She knew she could have me if things didn't work out with buttercups, so she didn't have to try. She had all of the cards in her hands.

 

Sometimes I wonder whether my begging and pleading and deep love for my ex after she left me for another man wasn't really love (granted she f*cked me over) but just a sense of lost control. I don't know.

 

So especially granted she begged for you once and then it was over after a day, I think it is more likely that she just feels as if she she's lost her upper ground. But this doesn't really seem to be an issue for you because you are ready to move on anyway. It seems to just be her issue. She definitely needs NC for now. I know you want to be friends, but she really isn't in an emotional state to be your friend right now =-\

[WiseOne1]

Thanks guys, although I must admit that is a huge ego booster.

I just like telling her that her new bf is the best thing that ever happened, and thats when she gets pissed off and argues more.

 

Also though, I think that im 80% over her, I still get these very stong urges to try to get back with her, actually I kinda want her back, and the new relationship isnt official with the other girl so far.

[Geishawhelk]

Yes, good idea, play right into her hands, and let her twist you round your little finger yet again.

Cr*p on your current GF. I'm sure she'd be delighted to know just how important you think she is.

And besides, as your ex- did it to you once - sorry twice - before, heck. Yeh.

 

Why not make it a hat-trick....?

 

Please don't tell me you're going to do it.........

 

Please....

[WiseOne1]

Yes, good idea, play right into her hands, and let her twist you round your little finger yet again.

Cr*p on your current GF. I'm sure she'd be delighted to know just how important you think she is.

And besides, as your ex- did it to you once - sorry twice - before, heck. Yeh.

 

Why not make it a hat-trick....?

 

Please don't tell me you're going to do it.........

 

Please....

 

Wiseone says this, the reason while me and the halfway gf arent 100% together, is because she doesnt seem to be over her ex bf. She still seems to have issues with her and her ex BF, and I would be stupid to step into a sistuation that could cause me to be back on LoveShack because im heart broken.

 

So its kinda damn if I do, and damn if I dont. Its just that from personal experience, and from others experience, i've started to notice red flags!! I can see it now, 8 months later......she comes out and says "I still love my ex????? Ya see my point, although everyone deserves a fair chance, its just one of those red flags that you shouldnt take lightly.

 

Messing with her or the ex, would be playing with fire, the question is which one is hotter?

[BackonTrack2]

Damn WISE ONE, I love you man. I remember when you were losing, LOL you stayed in the game and turn the tables on her... MAN YOUR ****ING my hero dude. Oh man, lol damn son, you the man baby, you the man, you are the man.

 

 

Do me a favor, PLEASE PLEASE, keep harassing her, tell her you got you guys 4 tickets to the movies and you can double date LOL please, keep ****ing with her.

 

DOn't cut her off, its FUN, just use her for sex and blow jobs. She treated you like ****, I remember, now its your turn. Step it up a notch, but way a minute, your NEW GIRL, are you serious about her? If you are, you should go NC so you don't mess that up. She's going to mess up your relationship.

 

WOW, those are the same lines my EX told me, damn, each day I realize that my ex really did leave me for someone else. Damn this isn't funny anymore, yeah dude, leave that girl alone, in the long run its going to **** you over.

 

But ah seriously though, yeah man, go NC man. I know you not going to listen but ah, bury this. In the long run its only distracting you from being whatever it is you would be doing had you not been toying with the girl.

[Geishawhelk]

Messing with her or the ex, would be playing with fire, the question is which one is hotter?

 

Really? You're asking?

Ok, my additional 2cents...(I think I'm about up to $3.20.... )

 

I'd break it off with current half-way GF telling her your being around is just messing with her head, not to mention yours! and that you'll cool it with her.

tell her to give you a call when she's made her mind up, but you can't dangle for her for ever. It's unfair.

 

Ex-G/F?

Don't even think about it.

Do NOT go there.

 

Scrub it all clean and start again!!

 

Wow, look at that!!

Suddenly - you're a free agent!!

[WiseOne1]

Thanks you guys, I will take care of this tonite.

 

Back On Track, The Rock says this that this is too fun to let it go, im sorry but now I know what it feels like to have someone chase you, and people are right the more you chase a ex, the less they will want you. Because im running from her and shes chasing.

 

OMG shes calling now, brb

[WiseOne1]

Well now shes sending me naked pictures and such. I told her that her new BF wouldnt appreciate that much.

[Cub]

Oh my, she's a silly one! Just whether the storm - she'll stop eventually.

 

Here's a bunny, to bolster your will:

[Geishawhelk]

Now you see, responding is exactly what she wants.

Even what she might view as the 'wrong' response is better than none at all.

You're playing into her hands.

You're paying her attention, which makes her believe she is still more importnt to you than anything else you might be doing.

 

Please, try.

If you're as wise as you say you are {} you will simply delete her off anything she's on, and re-name her phone ID as "don't pick up!" I saw someone else suggest this, and I think it's a fine idea.....

 

Telling her things about her BF is just - forgive my saying so - a snipy way of winding her up and deliberately making her mad.

So you're working her to get a reaction out of her too.

That's counter-productive, surely........?

 

If you're going to end it, don't do it by half measures.

be decisive, and cut it all off.

If you see what I mean.

[Surfer Dude]

I agree with Geisha.

 

Don't mess with her and her life, it could backfire badly. You're not a bad person, having revenge on her wouldn't solve any of your problems. Don't be like her, keep your dignity and keep your NC. The more you mess with her, the deeper sh*t you get yourself into.

[WiseOne1]

Geishawhelk is agree 100% of everything you posted, but it feels so good, I know im playing serious games with her, but Im on cloud 9 right now, lol I told her along time ago, that I was just a "sexy boy".

 

I know that this is only gonna end up bad, but im draggin it out, gosh, but im gonna stop this, rite after I sort thru these new naked pictures, I promise myself that!!!!

[BackonTrack2]

na fawk that, here is what you do..

 

Na **** that dude, she cheated on you, she deserves nothing. and well since you enjoy playing with her **** it, lets go for a 50 point game, lets no half ass.

 

tell her you want to have a threesome between you and the new GF.

tell her to send you pictures of her playing with herself with a dildo.

 

how far will she go?

tell her come over right now and say these words exactly "i want to put my cock in your mouth and I want to cum on your face"

whore her out.

 

trust me, she will like it.

man, get the best of her while you can.

she going to get hip soon to your games, get it while its hot.

 

your young, and chances are your going to be totally destroyed when **** hits the fan but i promise you

 

infact call her right now

"Hey baby, I want you to masterbatue for me while we are on the phone and I want to hear you moan, tell me you like it, ok now baby I am going to come over and put my cock in your mouth"

 

oh man, this is going to be so fun.

this is going to end bad, i know it but oh well as long as your cool with it, i'm cool with it...

 

My question to you

How far will she go?????????????

Can you find out for us?????

 

you are farer than me in my last break-up situation, man your the captain now. All eyes on you.

[WiseOne1]

Lmao, back on track u are hilarious man, she already wanted to have phone sex today

And I was like no and told her to come over, she's already talkin about oral sex, hmmmm.

 

I don't know but I gotta keep this game goin, I have to drag this out aslong as possible

[WiseOne1]

Lol, omg Im not sure if power is turning over, or if the ball is in her court.

But shes now calling me and saying that she hates him and wants to break up with him, she says shes tired of him, also shes crying.

 

I dont know what the hell is going on, but im telling her that hes the best thing ever that happened, and shes getting more mad as I do it, I might have to rewrite my storylines or such, or redo my plan.