EmperorR Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Lol, omg Im not sure if power is turning over, or if the ball is in her court. But shes now calling me and saying that she hates him and wants to break up with him, she says shes tired of him, also shes crying. I dont know what the hell is going on, but im telling her that hes the best thing ever that happened, and shes getting more mad as I do it, I might have to rewrite my storylines or such, or redo my plan. Just go total NC, what goes around man, take the high road. If my ex ever came back and around like that, I'd just tell her to bad, like you told me forget about us, go find someone new. Just let it go, revenge is never the best option, just wish her and her new guy the best, don't reply to her texts or phone calls and thats it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WiseOne1 Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Thanks emperorR, Its about time I do NC, because I have breaking news!!!!!!!!!!!!! Live from MTV, she just called and says that she broke up with him, im like OMG, I know this is all happening because of her being jealous because im treating a new girl better than hes treating her. She feels left out or such, I told her to call him back and try to get back together with him. Link to post Share on other sites
TeaAbraham Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Don't be a mother f*cker dude. Just don't do it. You know how all of those filthy rich people get obsessed with all of their money and just want more and more and more and more and more and more and they f*ck people over to get it? You know how people become so powerful and power hungry they turn to the dark side? C'mon dude, you saw Episode III. Anakin ended up melting in lava and having the love of his life die because of it. You know how they say power corrupts? Well guess what?! You have the ball in your court, you've got the money, you've got that control. Don't let it turn you into a bonefide d*ck. All of that control you've got now, what's the point of it unless you do the right thing? You gotta just go total NC and not play with her mind anymore, I don't care what she did. Stop telling her about how great her bf is and all that sh*t. Just tell her " I don't think you're thinking clearly right now, I think we both outta take some time and just think about #1 for a while. Our relationship is over. I am almost 100% over it. I think you need to be too. You don't really want me back, you just want to know that you could have me back." Look at the endgame. Where will you be if you just f*ck around with her and then dump her on the side of the street? Perhaps you will have revenge but what for? Where will you be when the dust has settled? You will just be a manipulative dude who doens't respect others. What is the point anymore? If this is all about having control and manipulating and one uping her then this isn't about love anymore. This is just about f*cked up sh*t and getting even. BackonTrack, man, that was hilarious, but it isn't what you've gotta do. This isn't the get-even by having your ex come running to you and do you exotic sexual favors and then dump her on the side of the street - Shack. This is the love shack! And I'm not seeing any love in this predicament at all. Maybe on her part, but if she knew what you were thinking any love that she might be feeling right now would be gone in a second. This isn't about who's side of the court the ball is on. This is about love! Love is not a f*cking tennis ball. I suggest you don't treat it like one! You've gotta step back from the situation and just cut it off. This isn't love at all. This is just control and clinging and fear at work. Maybe if you both just backed off for a while and went NC you both would be able to see clearly and know if there is really that love there. If it's there, awesome. But I don't think either of you could see it if it were looking ya straight in the face. There's too much haze in front of both of you for you to tell. I for one am guessing that that love isn't actually behind all of that haze, because both of you made a decision, but then some event like you having this new girl put your ex into shock mode. That love wasn't there anymore prior to that shock! I don't think it will be there after it's worn off. NC! You've got to. Link to post Share on other sites
nittanylion Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Don't bother her. Move on! Link to post Share on other sites
Author WiseOne1 Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Tea Abraham, man that was a deep theory, I see what your saying. However I want her back, its just that i’m not willing to ask for her back. This is kind of screwed up because I been waiting for the day that she broke up with him, and I been waiting the last 9 months and now that she has, I don’t know what to do. You make alot of sense, everyone on this thread does! Its just that I don't think that she’s ready for a new relationship, and I certainly don't think that’s she’s over her, and really I think that they may get back together. So I don't want to set myself up for a downfall, or get my hopes up to high. Surely this just started out as a revenge thing because I wanted to see if she would get jealous just like she made me, well she did, and everything is happening at once. So far she’s not even saying that she wants me back, she’s just flirting very strongly and acting like it. After all this i’m maybe 70% in love with her still, and the new GF thing is halfway impossible, it doesn’t seem like it's going to work even if me and the new girl try. The best thing I can do is give us both space, and time, if there not together by next month maybe I can try then, but i’m just trying not to get my hopes up, last time she didn’t actually go thru breaking up with him, but this time she’s going all the way. I need to go on NC and stay away for 2 weeks and then come back and see how things are. Acouple of months ago when I was hell bent into getting her back, I read a "get your ex back" book, I didnt buy it, it was a free sample online! But I read it, and yesterday I got bored and tryed the techniques, the good part about them is they work...oh they work, but they dont give you how to finish it off, right now im stuck in lala land. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WiseOne1 Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 This was never about revenge, this was about me seeing if shes still interested in me, and it seems that she is, so now you guys know that I want her back, whats the advice? Link to post Share on other sites
TeaAbraham Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Hmm. I would say take it slowly. You can't just jump right back into the same situation you guys had before. I don't know what happened to you two in the first place, but obviously something was wrong. Whatever was wrong you've got to really know what it is and fix it. I think this time apart can allow you to better see what tha problem was and what you can do about it. But if you really want it to work this time, whatever that issue between you two was you really gotta work on it. Perhaps on a daily basis. And I mean really work on it. But you have both got to take it slowly. Don't let her just come running back into your life like that, for your own sake. As I've said, you've gotta make sure that it is really love that she is feeling and not just the shock of not being able to have you. So the punchline is just make sure you are smarter now than you were before. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WiseOne1 Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Yea well only time will tell. Link to post Share on other sites
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