samsungxoxo Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Ok I'm at lost at what to do. Mom stopped liking my b/f a long time ago since the beginning of Dec. 2006. No talking to her won't work, she's stubborn. Today I had an argument with her and she brought him in the topic again, I'm soooooooo mad. What should I do, I'm getting fed up with her disapproval expressing ideas about him. I know she doesn't like him, but seriously why can't she just shut up with it already. She's been expressing overly and overly again her disapproval for the past 2 yrs. already. When is it ENOUGH????????? What if we get married then, she say then she'll changed but see she's gonna fake it and not like him for real. I don't like that position plus b/f is an expert in detecting liars and hypocrites. Link to post Share on other sites
SoStupid Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Ok I'm at lost at what to do. Mom stopped liking my b/f a long time ago since the beginning of Dec. 2006. No talking to her won't work, she's stubborn. Today I had an argument with her and she brought him in the topic again, I'm soooooooo mad. What should I do, I'm getting fed up with her disapproval expressing ideas about him. I know she doesn't like him, but seriously why can't she just shut up with it already. She's been expressing overly and overly again her disapproval for the past 2 yrs. already. When is it ENOUGH????????? What if we get married then, she say then she'll changed but see she's gonna fake it and not like him for real. I don't like that position plus b/f is an expert in detecting liars and hypocrites. Hey Ailec1987 I know exactly how you feel.. I too was in a similar relationship for 6 years my mom didn;t like him for the first 5 due to the way he looked, talk to me, treated me ect... the last year him and i were together my mom stopped being so over dramatic with the whole scene well his parents kicked him out and he had no where to go so i begged and begged my mom to let him move in and if she didnt i would go live with my dad.. It took me about a week to get her to agree.. he moved in and a year later I realized that everything my mom said about him and our relationship was true and that in fact the whole time she was telling me he was bad news she was right.. anyways we broke up and I moved on.. and in the end momma was always right! ( Maybe in a couple years you might agree)(maybe not) only time will tell! -SS Link to post Share on other sites
SierraRose Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 I agree with SS...same situation here...Had a b/f for 4 1/2 years; to say she hated him is being polite. I finally came to my sences and dumped him. WOW...I was so engrossed in the LTR I saw only what I choose to see, I made excuses for the bad. He has been out of my life now for 7 months; I hate to admit it, but Mom was right all along. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 Same. My parents didn't like my first fiance. He still hasn't amounted to much. They didn't like my husband. I ended up eating crap sandwiches until the day we got divorced. Not by my parents. By my husband. If your mom doesn't like him she probably has a very good reason. And it's with your best interest at heart. Link to post Share on other sites
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