carty Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 every time me and my girlfriend go out and we have a couple of drinks i make an absolute dick of myself when she chats to other men.its like all hell breaks loose and i get so paranoid and jealous i do not mean to be like this does anyone no how i can control my feelings im at breaking point:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Thir Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 I know i'm new here, but the best advice that I can give is to talk to her about it. Communication is key to making a relationship work. Why do you feel this way? Do you not trust her? What's the underlying reason behind it? How long have you two been together? Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 every time me and my girlfriend go out and we have a couple of drinks i make an absolute dick of myself when she chats to other men.its like all hell breaks loose and i get so paranoid and jealous i do not mean to be like this does anyone no how i can control my feelings im at breaking point:lmao: Well it all depends on HOW she chats with other men. Does she completely ignore you and go off chatting with other men all night long? Does she get all touchy feely and flirty with them? Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 You mention that this happens when you have a few drinks. When you are sober do you feel the same jealousy? When you are drinking and single, do you act like a dick in other ways? Could be a jealousy/insecurity issue or a drinking problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Ayemtee Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 every time me and my girlfriend go out and we have a couple of drinks i make an absolute dick of myself when she chats to other men.its like all hell breaks loose and i get so paranoid and jealous i do not mean to be like this does anyone no how i can control my feelings im at breaking point:lmao: Are you both a bit tipsy when this happens? Are you an angry drunk? Is she a flirty/touchy/promiscuous drunk? Best thing to do is like advised above, talk to her. Instead of blowing up, take her outside and talk about it. Best thing to do in these situations, I know its hard, but keep your cool man. The cool guy always comes out on top. Link to post Share on other sites
ThisGuy85 Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 Have you told her that it bothers you when she does these things? If she knows it bothers you, And still continues to do it, Then don't get mad get even. Go find some girl at the bar and strike up a conversation with her. Let your girl see what it's like from the other end, Maybe she'll start to understand why it bothers you so much. I don't know, But I've had girls in the past tell me that they did things like this, Just to get their guy jealous. In other words, It was just some feeble attempt to get attention from their man. It may just be me, But I think their is no such thing as an innocent conversation between men and women at a bar. I can see where your coming from, With being jealous. Link to post Share on other sites
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