Heartbroken, with a second chance with ex.. yes or no?

[missamandak]

So a few weeks ago, my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me, claiming "I love you, but im not IN LOVE with you..." and "I dont feel like I will ever get to the point you are at with our relationship." Needless to say, I was heartbroken.

 

I had put so much into loving him, and after he ended it I thought life was over! I sulked, hoped everytime I heard ANY phone ring it was him, hoped anyone that knocked on the door was him. It never happened. He was out with his friends, doing the normal things he always did while I was alone. Next thing I know, im feeling better day by day.

 

So last night, I get a text message from him on my cell phone, asking me to come over. I was hesitant, but as much progress as I made in getting over him, I risked it all and went to his house. We talked about everything but the two of us for almost an hour. Then he let it all out. He said he missed having me in his life and all the things I wanted to hear WEEKS ago.

 

I tried to be a hard ass about it, but in the end, I knew deep down I felt the same. He is worth it to me to risk having yet ANOTHER breakup, but Im still unsure if I should accept his offer of getting back together, especially when I know the inevitable. Is it worth it to have fun now, and worry about the bad stuff when/if it happens? Or should I just call it quits now before I get in too deep again?

[EnigmaXOXO]

WOW!

 

It only took him a few weeks to start missing you already!!

 

I imagine the pain of the breakup is still pretty fresh, so I bet the relief of him wanting you back must feel like an emotional high. But you already know that you will be taking a risk, so you must carefully consider if it is worth it.

 

If it were me, I would give it just a little more time to see where his head is really at. I wouldn't promise him any "commitments" just yet. Let him take all the necessary steps to court you again and earn back your trust.

 

Actions speak louder than words.