Author Fun2BMe Posted December 13, 2008 Author Share Posted December 13, 2008 You slept with not one, but 2 wives husbands? Aye yi yi NO. The first was being sexually abused during doctor visits the second was he TRIED to seduce me and I said NO and have his emails as evidence. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 I thought I'd let you guys know that the attorney was not interested in helping me. THey couldn't understand why someone my age (adult vs. a minor) would continue to see someone who was taking advantage of them, especially the fact that I continued to pay for my visits after it turned sexual. I feel really hurt but at least in the future I won't regret not having tried to do something. I think it also had to do with the fact that I didn't want to sue him for like everything he's worth. I just wanted to recoup the amount I paid him for those visits, even if it was to give it away to charity. I feel angry that he profited from abusing me. Get a second opinion from another attorney. Lots of people continue in abusive relationships even though they know it is wrong. i can kinda see what they mean re: you continued to pay, but at the end of the day, the guy did something wrong and illegal- shouldn't that be enough to base a case on? Link to post Share on other sites
frannie Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Get a second opinion from another attorney. Lots of people continue in abusive relationships even though they know it is wrong. i can kinda see what they mean re: you continued to pay, but at the end of the day, the guy did something wrong and illegal- shouldn't that be enough to base a case on? I agree with this. If this is what you want to do, search around until you find someone who is prepared to represent you. Just because this one attorney doesn't 'understand', it doesn't mean there is no case. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Here’s an informative read, Fun2BeMe. You should get yourself more familiar with it and empower yourself with knowledge. ETHICAL PRINCIPLES OF PSYCHOLOGISTS AND CODE OF CONDUCT http://www.apa.org/ethics/code2002.html Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Doctor #1 is a predator and he needs to be exposed - not to his wife, but to the medical board of your state. I too am sickened by the way he used you for sex, messed with your head emotionally, and continued to charge you for the visits. I am sure this is not his first go-round an it will not be his last. Please have some compassion for the next target - who may not be as strong or resilient as you - and don't let him go there. PLEASE. REPORT IT. I don't care about the MM angle 1% as much as I do about the doctor/seducer angle. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 I think that's how you feel in hindsight No, thats how I would have felt if someone came to me and told me the truth. but the reality based on all the feedback is that had you been told at the time you were still married, you would not have believed it at all, especially if your spouse were to deny it. Wrong, I would have believed it because she had plenty of opportunity. I stayed home with the kids so she could have time to herself. I would have definitely believed it if someone came to me with it. The xW and I even had heated conversations when she'd come home late in the morning. So yes, I would have wanted to know and I could have kicked her to the curb sooner and saved those precious years. Link to post Share on other sites
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