CaliGuy Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 Daithi, you care far too much about what she thinks of you. Your happiness should not depend on whether you get a birthday message from your ex or not. Instead, you should be grateful for the friends and family you have who are at your side right now. Not the people who walked away from you... Cheers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author daithi Posted December 15, 2008 Author Share Posted December 15, 2008 Daithi, you care far too much about what she thinks of you. Your happiness should not depend on whether you get a birthday message from your ex or not. Instead, you should be grateful for the friends and family you have who are at your side right now. Not the people who walked away from you... Cheers. Who said anything about my happiness depending on it???. Nobody, I said it would be a nice thought if she did. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 Who said anything about my happiness depending on it???. Nobody, I said it would be a nice thought if she did. The fact that you even brought it up says a lot about the state of mind you are in. It shouldn’t matter whether she she does or not. The only thing that matters right now in your world is that you move forward with your life. It is what it is and nothing can be done to change that. I'm not trying to be rude, just give you the hard facts about life in general. Let go of the things you can not control because honestly, the only thing in this life you have absolute control over is you. Cheers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author daithi Posted December 16, 2008 Author Share Posted December 16, 2008 The fact that you even brought it up says a lot about the state of mind you are in. It shouldn’t matter whether she she does or not. The only thing that matters right now in your world is that you move forward with your life. It is what it is and nothing can be done to change that. I'm not trying to be rude, just give you the hard facts about life in general. Let go of the things you can not control because honestly, the only thing in this life you have absolute control over is you. Cheers. Not really, its just it would be nice if she did. Im not trying to control anything, a simple happy birthday is all. Im not looking for anything out of it and my state of mind is fine. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Not really, its just it would be nice if she did. Im not trying to control anything, a simple happy birthday is all. Im not looking for anything out of it and my state of mind is fine. Then don't worry about whether she contacts you or not. In the end, it doesn't really matter. Link to post Share on other sites
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