Disillusioned Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 There's another singles board I used to post to (not this one, but some of you probably know which one) which taught me something. I used to think dating services were solely to blame when people say "it's so hard to meet good people", etc etc... but now I know it's the fault of many of the singles themselves, for abusing the system. The problem is, most other singles IMO are not serious about wanting to meet someone to be happy with (it's just a game to them), and the dating services don't care as long as they make money. Anyhow, on that other board, nearly all the posters are in their late 40s, their 50s, or their 60s, but you should read their posts... they're as immature as a bunch of 12-year olds. It would be easy to call them trolls, except they all know each other, and so they pretty much own that board. Anyone who tries to be honest, is not welcome in their little game. To top it off, they all have the temerity to say "I live out in the middle of nowhere, come and get me!" I'm like, no thanks, I'll stay right here. I can't imagine why anyone would want to go on a date with a middle aged teenager, could you imagine what it must be like to be married to one??? That's why I think, if more single people really were serious, they'd stop playing games and start more of their own little groups for meeting each other. That has not happened, so we end up taking one beating after another. Link to post Share on other sites
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