Brendi_thesnake Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 Now before any of you start saying how you would never do this to him/her, I am only referring to this as hypothetically. So if your SO basically were to caught you in any of the acts of cheating whether this be kissing or making love how would you react and what would you do? I never had that happened to me but if I did, I would just walk away and don't look back. No there would be no apologies coming out of my mouth whatsoever. At least I would then be like ''Yes I got caught but I'm not sorry''. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 D'you know, the idea is so alien, so repulsive and so horrific to me, that I can't even think beyond your opening title question.... Link to post Share on other sites
awesomeness43 Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Now before any of you start saying how you would never do this to him/her, I am only referring to this as hypothetically. So if your SO basically were to caught you in any of the acts of cheating whether this be kissing or making love how would you react and what would you do? to catch... haha. dont know why of all things that bothered me.. ps.. you have issues. =D Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brendi_thesnake Posted December 6, 2008 Author Share Posted December 6, 2008 to catch... haha. dont know why of all things that bothered me.. ps.. you have issues. =D Because you hardly get to hear that happening, that would be so idiotic. Oh really I got issues you saying, why so? I suppost this topic came from this guy's story I was reading http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=264438 Now I wonder if he's sorry like he says it or if it's just his sorry I got caught excuse. Link to post Share on other sites
Walk Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Why do you keep posting hypothetical questions about cheating? I'm curious. Have you been tempted to cheat lately? Is something going on in your life that's caused you to wonder about infedility lately? A SO who's acting a little strange? A friend who's not being faithful? A parent, co-worker, sibling? You must've thought through actually doing the deed in order to come to a conclusion of how you would react once you were caught. Why? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brendi_thesnake Posted December 6, 2008 Author Share Posted December 6, 2008 Why do you keep posting hypothetical questions about cheating? I was just asking out of curiousity, this is a forum afterall. Have you been tempted to cheat lately? Definately many times and done it too, but I'm not into that no many, it got boring. Is something going on in your life that's caused you to wonder about infedility lately? Yes I'm currently about to dump my new b/f, no I haven't cheated on him but I'm not unfortable and will seek help about my personality problem (I suspect I might be having antisocial per. d.). A SO who's acting a little strange? A friend who's not being faithful? A parent, co-worker, sibling? No not that I'm aware of and my sister is happily married to her husband. You must've thought through actually doing the deed in order to come to a conclusion of how you would react once you were caught. Why? Have cheated many times in the past, been a player for so long but never got caught nor discovered in lies. See, I always knew the schedule and who I was talking to, who to tell stuff and who not do. Plus I never cheatedm on places where you can easily get caught nor left e-mails open. I always acted ahead of time. Link to post Share on other sites
Walk Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I was just asking out of curiousity, this is a forum afterall. Definately many times and done it too, but I'm not into that no many, it got boring. Okay... what you posted (in post above) helped clear up some of my confusion. I was having a hard time understanding where you were coming from. Thank you for answering honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Have cheated many times in the past, been a player for so long but never got caught nor discovered in lies. See, I always knew the schedule and who I was talking to, who to tell stuff and who not do. Plus I never cheatedm on places where you can easily get caught nor left e-mails open. I always acted ahead of time. Hmmm... do I know you? :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
nittanylion Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 You sound like my gf. She broke alot of guys hearts. The only difference is she felt remorse and guilty about it whereas you feel indifferent. I dont think you are cold otherwise you wouldnt post on LS. I think you have not find the right person. When you do, your heart(in-love) is in it, just like my SO, and you wouldn't leave or break another heart again. Yes, I think you should tell him up front about breaking up with him. It's a respectful, and the right thing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Now before any of you start saying how you would never do this to him/her, I am only referring to this as hypothetically. So if your SO basically were to caught you in any of the acts of cheating whether this be kissing or making love how would you react and what would you do? I actually caught an old longtime girlfriend, who we promised each to marry after college, in bed with another guy. I opened the door, turned on the light, and there they were, she sat up and covered herself immediately apologizing, and he layed there covering his face. Rage did immediately take over my thoughts. But then I took a deep breath and just looked at her, shook my head, and slammed the door shut so hard that it broke the knob and the wood frame. She had to pay for the door too since it was an apartment:lmao: My friends said, "man you should have jumped on him and started wailing!" I said, "if I did that, I'd have to do that to her too." So since I'd never lay a hand on a woman, it didn't make much sense to beat the snot out of him either. Besides, although he knew she was "taken" it was her I was more angry with. All he did really was help her get caught by being with her and helped me realize she wasn't worth a squirt of p!ss. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 I actually caught an old longtime girlfriend, who we promised each to marry after college, in bed with another guy. I opened the door, turned on the light, and there they were, she sat up and covered herself immediately apologizing, and he layed there covering his face. Rage did immediately take over my thoughts. But then I took a deep breath and just looked at her, shook my head, and slammed the door shut so hard that it broke the knob and the wood frame. She had to pay for the door too since it was an apartment:lmao: My friends said, "man you should have jumped on him and started wailing!" I said, "if I did that, I'd have to do that to her too." So since I'd never lay a hand on a woman, it didn't make much sense to beat the snot out of him either. Besides, although he knew she was "taken" it was her I was more angry with. All he did really was help her get caught by being with her and helped me realize she wasn't worth a squirt of p!ss. Dexter you could just as much have shot them them tranquilizers, tied them up in a room of plastic, and then hack them to bits.... Link to post Share on other sites
samsungxoxo Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 I actually caught an old longtime girlfriend, who we promised each to marry after college, in bed with another guy. Rage did immediately take over my thoughts. But then I took a deep breath and just looked at her, shook my head, and slammed the door shut so hard that it broke the knob and the wood frame. She had to pay for the door too since it was an apartment:lmao: My friends said, "man you should have jumped on him and started wailing!" I'm glad she is your ex by now, what a piece of waste. If you haven't caught her, then I can imagine that who knows for how long she would have kept doing it. And yea I don't agree with beating up the other people because by doing this that's like you actually saying that ''the relationship is still worth saving it'' and in a way believe it or not, if you were to beat the other guy then you would be defending the cheater. No use for it, mine is a better one, I would just either closed the door quietly and leave a message or just say something like ''Oh my bad, did I interrupted you guys?? Keep doing what you were doing and come back later to pick out your stuff, they will be at the door''. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 Dexter you could just as much have shot them them tranquilizers, tied them up in a room of plastic, and then hack them to bits.... Nah, but I'd cheer on the real Dexter if he decided to do such to a pair of cheaters. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 I'm glad she is your ex by now, what a piece of waste. If you haven't caught her, then I can imagine that who knows for how long she would have kept doing it. well I ended up marrying and divorcing one just as bad, so it didn't really matter too much I guess:lmao: She told me she wanted me to pay for the door I broke and I told her where she could get bent. And then she calls me crying asking me if its really over for good. I blurted a flew expletives in the midst of my "you're damn right" and hung up. From there on out I just ignored her calls and voicemails and finally after 3 weeks she stopped. Link to post Share on other sites
samsungxoxo Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 She told me she wanted me to pay for the door I broke and I told her where she could get bent. Wow, I don't believe it!!!!!!!! What she done was no where compare to her broken door. If I had been her I wouldn't even have the nerve to even claim it, I would be soooo very shamed, embarrassed. I can't believe she ven had the nerve to even ask for her broken door and saying if it was over for good when the answer was soooo obvious. Link to post Share on other sites
Wicked Smile Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 It's hard to believe that there truly are people who sit and think about how to perfect being an @$$hole. Link to post Share on other sites
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