SoFurious Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I feel like my dad and my brother hate me, the only people that i really feel that they like me are my mom and my other brother, I dont understand, i do what they tell me and get high marks at school, i help them but when my brother picks on me my dad doesnt punish him, he punishes me:mad:, why? i need your help! P.S: i`m 13 if that helps Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Is the brother that picks on you younger than you? Because that's the order. Usually the older one gets yelled at if they are fighting with the younger one. Even if the younger one is wrong. I know it's not fair but that's usually the way it goes. Your dad doesn't hate you. Your brother maybe does but I'm pretty sure your dad does not. Do your brother and your dad spend more time together than you and your dad do? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I feel like my dad and my brother hate me, the only people that i really feel that they like me are my mom and my other brother, I dont understand, i do what they tell me and get high marks at school, i help them but when my brother picks on me my dad doesnt punish him, he punishes me:mad:, why? i need your help! P.S: i`m 13 if that helps Judging from another post you put up, which I responded to, you may be unaware that you are possibly causing a lot of the trouble. Why don't you spend some alone time evaluating your behavior and contemplate on becoming a better person...a person your brother won't pick on...and person who doesn't need to be punished for anything. If you have trouble doing that, get some help from a school counselor or other wise person willing to help you develop your social skills. Link to post Share on other sites
MN randomguy Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Meh, I disagree with the previous poster. Some families are unjust. Could you be more specific in how your brother picks on you? Maybe they don't want you to be a taddle. Maybe they think you're too sensitive. What happens when you give it back to your brother? Link to post Share on other sites
Tarantula Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 The best you can do is To Talk to your dad and your brother that you have disagreements with . It is not that simple as it may sound ,but you will just let them know all you think of the situation as the whole , this WILL help in the long run. God bless! Link to post Share on other sites
Author SoFurious Posted December 7, 2008 Author Share Posted December 7, 2008 Is the brother that picks on you younger than you? Because that's the order. Usually the older one gets yelled at if they are fighting with the younger one. Even if the younger one is wrong. I know it's not fair but that's usually the way it goes. Your dad doesn't hate you. Your brother maybe does but I'm pretty sure your dad does not. Do your brother and your dad spend more time together than you and your dad do? No, i`m younger, and yes i barely spend any time with my dad cause hes busy he says -.- The best you can do is To Talk to your dad and your brother that you have disagreements with . It is not that simple as it may sound ,but you will just let them know all you think of the situation as the whole , this WILL help in the long run. God bless! I did but still the same problem, i wonder why... Meh, I disagree with the previous poster. Some families are unjust. Could you be more specific in how your brother picks on you? Maybe they don't want you to be a taddle. Maybe they think you're too sensitive. What happens when you give it back to your brother? I`m not sensitive its just that when i`m exercising he starts luaghing and i tell my dad then my dad punishes me, my family is unjust... Link to post Share on other sites
MN randomguy Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 I`m not sensitive its just that when i`m exercising he starts luaghing and i tell my dad then my dad punishes me, my family is unjust... Yeah, Don't tell your dad then. Just shave your brother's eyebrows in his sleep. Does he have a car? Maybe you can put a dead animal under the seats in his car Grumpy Old Men style. Then your whole family can laugh. If your dad wants to be not involved he can be not involved. Where's you mom in this? Do you think maybe she can be on your side and educate your dad on how body conscious 13 y/o girls can be and how sensitive of an issue this is. To your dad and brother its probably not a big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
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