"S/HE's Hot"

[hummingbird]

hi

when you say that if you do.... in reference to someone you see on a tele program, movie, store... etc.

what does that mean to you? do you say it out loud with your partner/GF/spouse present???

How far does that thought go in your mind?

Does it? and if so, does that usually mean you feel you would have sex with that individual if you could?

 

if you dig deep..what does that mean to you and if anything how does that connect with your GF/spouse/partner?

 

for me, no one I see is "hot" just my guy......

yes, i think people (guys) are attractive and I can see other women as pretty although I don't find other women "hot".

It never goes beyond that for me... it just means that I think they are attractive and that is it....

could care less about them beyond that point.

of course everyone is individual and beauty is in the eye of the beholder... but just curious.

[annieo]

Being a verbal kind of person, with a defective control switch between my brain and mouth, I have been known to utter flattering comments about other men, with my h present. Not real men in the vicinity, but more like, "Mmmm, Hugh Grant isn't exactly unappealing...". He usually counters with, "And that Julia Roberts, grrrr". I sort of wish I would just keep my mouth shut, but it's not frequent and he doesn't get too fussed about it.

 

If I notice an actual real man who turns my silly head, I tend to keep it to myself. Somehow that seems disrespectful to my h, and I wouldn't appreciate it if he did it.

 

The last time we had a major tiff was because we were driving along and my h had to hit the brakes pretty hard to avoid rear ending another car, because he was looking at a hot girl who was walking down the street. That pissed me off. It was embarrassing (she probably noticed, and there I sit, like an idiot), plus I don't want to be in an accident because my h is, well, not focusing on his driving.

 

I still find it amazing when people (usually women) say they don't find anyone other than their partner hot. I'm not sure I really believe them.

Thinking someone else is sexy does NOT mean you're going to do anything about it. It just means you've still got your vision and a healthy appreciation for the opposite sex.