DreDre Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 So this girl I met online and I have been talking for 2 weeks. I live in Los Angeles and she lives in San Fran. We really like each other and talk everyday other than the weekend. She's been pretty honest with me on saying she does still like this guy from before we started chatting but we both really just hit it off. She tells she likes me much much more than him but doesn't give up on things easily. The guy also lives close to her and they've hung out before. We talk about meeting soon, sometime this month. I call her once or twice a day on the weekends and never hear from her but on the weekdays I hear from her all the time. The only things going in my mind is that she's with the guy which is killing me. Sometimes I feel like saying **** it and move on but once I hear her voice again, I fall for her all over again. I'm so stumped as to what to do. I don't want to come off as needy but I can't stop thinking of her. I don't act needy but I definitely feel like I am. Her mom and dad are both very sick and I don't know if that's what is keeping her from calling me. I'd rather her call me back instead of keeping me hanging and wonder wth is going on. I'm stumped. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Hmm. While I know there are alot of people out there who have had successful LDRs, I am not a major fan of them unless there is some kind of end point that you can work towards. Like- meeting up, or eventually living in the same place. This girl undoubtedly likes the attention she is getting from you, but as to what her true motives/intentions are is anyones guess without actually asking her. I suggest you cool off the contact for a while. Not to play games, but if she is really interested, she will contact you. If not, then you have your answer. Tough- but there are plenty more fish out in that sea, LOTS AND LOTS of them live in LA! Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreDre Posted December 8, 2008 Author Share Posted December 8, 2008 That's the thing, we're both looking forward to meeting each other and she's even thought about moving down to LA to go to school. You're right, I should lay off being the first to call her although she does do her fair share of calling. I don't know... Weekdays we're so freaking lovey dovey then weekends go completely silent. I don't get it. All I ask for really is for her to pick up the phone and say she's busy or call me back later on in the day. People that genuinely say they like someone would at least have the common courtesy to call back and say they're busy. Maybe that's just me... Link to post Share on other sites
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