hark0100 Posted September 11, 2003 Share Posted September 11, 2003 I need help. 16 months ago I split up with my wife we were having lots of problems that we couldnt resolve. 5 months after we separated I started dating and we moved in together after a couple months of seeing each other every day. We dated for 9 months and we had lots of problems in the last 4 months of our relationship. 3 days after we split up my wife called me to see if I wanted to meet up with her. We went out and talked for a long time and we started working things out over a month and a bit and I was having problems as it was not truely knowing where my emotions were and she made a couple comments to me when i was trying to figure out if I could forgive her for some of the things she had done. I was so confused and mixed up that I went back to my girlfriend. After 2 weeks of being with her I started piecing things together and I realized it was her that I loved. I had a long chat with her last night and she had said even though I already knew that she was kinda seeing someone and that person is a friend of ours that I have known for years who just split up with his wife 3 months ago. I told her that I wanted her back, she said I don't know. I am not sure if I can ever forgive you for what you have done. How can I win her trust and prove to her that I want to spend the rest of my life with her? Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted September 11, 2003 Share Posted September 11, 2003 i'm a bit confused. which one did you want back? Link to post Share on other sites
Author hark0100 Posted September 11, 2003 Author Share Posted September 11, 2003 I want to win back my wife she means so much too me. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted September 11, 2003 Share Posted September 11, 2003 hmm..would she agree to seeing a counsellor with you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author hark0100 Posted September 11, 2003 Author Share Posted September 11, 2003 I am not sure, I told her I would work on my problems and there's a program called choices that she really believe in that helps people with their own problems and I told her I would go but even after that she isnt sure if she'll give me a chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hark0100 Posted September 13, 2003 Author Share Posted September 13, 2003 Well I have been able to talk with her and I got signed up in the choices program which she says does is 5 days what counsellors take a year to get so the money doesnt bother me. She said to me that seeing me willing to do whatever it takes is a big step and will prove a lot to her. Since that we are now talking and when she comes by to drop off the kids she sits down before work and we talk a bit before she goes. I have a good feeling everything will work out in time. I think it's gonna be a long process but she is definately worth it and thanx everyone for the helpful suggestions. Link to post Share on other sites
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