dabears Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 This summer i recently moved back to the northeast from college in the south. The first night i was out in my hometown, i met a wonderful girl. We, both from the very beginning decided we did not want any commitment, since we both were thinking about moving, and both living back at our parents. ..!....Anyways, even though that was said, we hung out a lot, talked everyday, she called 2 or 3 times..etc!!..did everything you can do i guess!..Well, after a few months, of this, you obviously grow to like one another.. and thats what happened..We both expressed feelings for one another, me more than her... The past few weeks have been different...We both started to argue a bit, nothing serious, just normal bicker here and there..We did not talk for a week, but now we are again.. When we started to talk again...we both decided we were not going to talk about "us"...because she just does not want anything with anyone right now...But she wants to continue to be with me...I really dont want anything either, but I have developed feelings for her, she has the same as well for me..which will always make things uneasy in some circumstances...I believe the reason we did not talk was most likley due to the fact, i pressed the issue...and kinda pushed her away a bit... Its hard, but I have decided to hang out with her again....If she wanted to date, I think i would...well, i know i would! I guess my question is...Can someone really not want anything or to date someone, when you know they like one another? I always just figured she will continue to hang out with until she finds someone better...hey maybe I should think that way to! I believe her when she says she does not want a commitment, because she said that day 1....It just makes it hard i guess, because I know her feelings and mine,...I guess why not keep the good thing going and see where it goes...maybe she just does not make up her mind easy...who knows... Also, i bet we will both not move like we talked about!...I just have a hunch.... Greatly appreciate some advice! Link to post Share on other sites
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