sexy Posted September 12, 2003 Share Posted September 12, 2003 Hi having the same problem as i am well let me tell you my story. Here it goes. I'f met this wonderfull guy a month ago and we fell completely in love, unexplainable but deep. Four months later i broke up with him cause i felt we are having to much fights and people always talking and saying things to me and him,eg: I cheated on him with two other guys whom i dont even know. i didnt care much about it but it really started to affect our relathinship in a lot of ways. On the same day when I broke up with him, a good friend and I got close and we started dating and it lasted for three weeks and two days. He broke up with me for another girl whom i always saw as my friend, but thats life. After everything I cant stop thinking about him and wondering if he ever thinks of me now and then. I still love him so much. One Friday night I saw him and he came over and we talked, he told my friend he wants me back. So when school started again i saw him again and he just cant stop looking at me. He told my friend he also still has feelings for me and she told him i still have great feelings for him to. Im now waiting when he is gonne make a move or not. But my patience is running out cause i want him badly back in my arms again. Have the same problem? Well do tell about it, and if you have any advice for me please reply! Link to post Share on other sites
amorkiki Posted September 14, 2003 Share Posted September 14, 2003 I say give him some time. Let him come to you. you just go about you merry self and do what you do. If he really cares for you and want you he will come. Trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sexy Posted September 16, 2003 Author Share Posted September 16, 2003 Thanx for your advice. We did sms each other last Saterday and three days after that he sms'ed me . I was really suprized about that I didnt think he would ever sms me again or anything. We also talked at school and after break he walked past me and said hi and bay-bay. He looked at me and just smiled. I just couldnt believe what i was seeing or hearing at that moment! ! Now Im just waiting for him to make a move. There is one problem thou Im going out with this other cute guy he asked me out so i said yes, but I want my ex back cause I still love him. I'f never been so confused in my life.What do you think i should do? If you have any problem or anything I would love to help, maybe I can help you since I cant help myself! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted September 16, 2003 Share Posted September 16, 2003 I cheated on him with two other guys whom i dont even know I still love him As Paul is often wont to say: define 'love'. Link to post Share on other sites
TeddJohnson99 Posted September 19, 2003 Share Posted September 19, 2003 My gf just dumped me recently, and i must say i'm not sure if i should make a move... i know how he must feel... maybe u should tell him you still love him or have a friend tell him to ask you out, cause without reassurece that you want him back, he won't take the risk of rejection or having you decide to no longer even be friends... good luck!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sugargirl Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 Originally posted by sexy Hi having the same problem as i am well let me tell you my story. Here it goes. I'f met this wonderfull guy a month ago and we fell completely in love, unexplainable but deep. Four months later i broke up with him cause i felt we are having to much fights and people always talking and saying things to me and him,eg: I cheated on him with two other guys whom i dont even know. i didnt care much about it but it really started to affect our relathinship in a lot of ways. On the same day when I broke up with him, a good friend and I got close and we started dating and it lasted for three weeks and two days. He broke up with me for another girl whom i always saw as my friend, but thats life. After everything I cant stop thinking about him and wondering if he ever thinks of me now and then. I still love him so much. One Friday night I saw him and he came over and we talked, he told my friend he wants me back. So when school started again i saw him again and he just cant stop looking at me. He told my friend he also still has feelings for me and she told him i still have great feelings for him to. Im now waiting when he is gonne make a move or not. But my patience is running out cause i want him badly back in my arms again. Have the same problem? Well do tell about it, and if you have any advice for me please reply! Link to post Share on other sites
sugargirl Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 In my world everything doesn't go my way. I never really get what i want. There is this guy that I liked an entire year in high school. I thought he was so cute and fun to be with. He mad me laugh and everything and to top it all off he was smart and cool with a lot of people. When we first meet I didn't really talk to him that much. I didn't really know about him past, all I knew is that I liked him. I told my cousin about this. I dont know whether this is considered to be a good thing or bad, but as the year progressed she started to like and sooner or later she went with him. And guess where that leaves me.......alone...no boyfriend. Now I liked my cousins boyfriend. Everyone in my school was claiming that I was wrong for likeing my cousins boyfirend but that didn't see it from my point of view and I was hoping they would, but hey thats life and there is not much I can do about that right now. Then my emotiions seemed to have been taken over by my body because I then began to kiss him at school knowing that other people would probably see....and she went with him. This became a routine for us to kiss at school and act like a couple. All this got put to an end once my cousin found out that I was doing this. She began to dislike me and we were at eachothers neck for the entire school year, but I didn't understand why exactly she wasn't mad at him when he went with her. I admitted then and up until this day that what i did was some what wrong and I will never again do that, but those momments I had with him i surely would not erase for nothing. As the school year was coming to its completion me and this boy were now having our own relationship and it was very good, from my eyes, although now I know he cheated on me with other girls. We spent at least 5 months together. The main reason why i broke up with him is because I felt that I needed time to focus on my finals and school in general. Over some months we had at least 7 different relationships. My friend continuously tell me not to go back out with him and to leave him alone, but every time i run back to him because they dont undertsand. Now he goes with this girl that dislikes me and threatens to fight me. Every single day I see then holding hands, flirting, kissing. They seem like the most perfect couple ever. I am heartbroken by even looking at them. I cant stand seeing them together. Its been 2 months almost and i hated every single day of it. I want him back so badly. He told me that he cant talk to me anymore because he doesn't want to mess up anything with his new girlfriend. Well I dont understand what he is talking about because i just want to be friends, nothing more. I am not trying to be all over him and all when he has already got someone. I wish I didn't miss him, but there is nothing that I can do to stop those feelings, because they will always be there....what can I say....I LOVE HIM FOREVER!!!! AND I WANT HIM BACK IN MY LIFE!!!!" DONT MARRY SOMEONE YOU CAN LIVE WITH MARRY SOMEONE YOU CANT LIVE WITHOUT." Link to post Share on other sites
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