Shnuggles Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 Hi all. Been having tons of trouble getting someone for a new relationship for a good while now. I'm not one to go out clubbing and have always found relationships through friends. These days they have all moved to other cities and finding someone is difficult. Where do I go to find someone when Im in my 30's? I ask this because when I go out on the town all the girls seem to be 18 or there abouts. Im looking for 25+ to 32. I also cant stand dancing, I have tried it a number of times but its just a pet hate of mine so that doesnt help. I tried online dating and its not really working. I don't have a degree in anything which pretty much takes me off the search lists. Pity really as I'm no idiot and know plenty of educated people who I wouldnt touch with a long stick. Ha! Im thinking about joining some sort of club (hobbies!). Maybe a motor bike club or bush walking. Might meet people through those however things like this are usually male dominated. Maybe a pool parlor on a weekend? Although thats not a cheap way to go. Still, better then nothing. Or move to a big city!! Ha. Any idea's would be great. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross PK Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 If finding someone through friends worked for you before, then a good idea would be joining places, like you said, but to find friends instead of a woman. If it's still too hard to find a 25+ woman even through friends because maybe most of them already have a partner, then you need to go to places single women usually go. I don't know what places they'd be though. Link to post Share on other sites
Anastasia0309 Posted December 16, 2008 Share Posted December 16, 2008 So, I'm only 24 but will soon be 25. My friends and I usually hangout at the gym or the library. We also usually go out to dinner alot together. So, instead of clubs try cute little restaurants! I also think school is a good place to meet nice people. That's if your still in school. Oh, then there is always church! Hope I helped! Link to post Share on other sites
wierdmunky Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Im 26 and half my friends don't like being at the clubs anymore because sometimes the younger ppl annoy them, upscale bar maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
Fierce Grace Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 i don't know what size area your from but networking groups are good ways to meet ppl with similar interest or getting involved in a hobby or co-ed sport... i would say look into doing things u like and you'll be more likely to run into people that you'll enjoy being around as well.. Link to post Share on other sites
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