Who should I beleave?

[Miriam]

Recently I went to the mall with my Best friend,my son,& my at that time,Boyfriend.We walked in and my boyfriend was always ahead of us.Then he kept talking to a girl he knows.I got real annoyed and asked my friend what she thought he was trying to do.She said he was trying to score with her he said otherwise.I noticed the girl was following us. He said he was just trying to be friendly but i don't know who to beleave. That night me & my man broke up, he said he just wants to be single but he's always lying to me.

 

Please tell me, Who should I beleave?!?

 

Miriam

[Jesaco]

Recently I went to the mall with my Best friend,my son,& my at that time,Boyfriend.We walked in and my boyfriend was always ahead of us.Then he kept talking to a girl he knows.I got real annoyed and asked my friend what she thought he was trying to do.She said he was trying to score with her he said otherwise.I noticed the girl was following us. He said he was just trying to be friendly but i don't know who to beleave. That night me & my man broke up, he said he just wants to be single but he's always lying to me. Please tell me, Who should I beleave?!? Miriam

Hi!

 

It really doesn't matter one way or the other what was said. Actions speak louder than words. Did he include you in the conversation with him and that other girl? If not, then he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He went to the mall with YOU, right. It's perfectly fine if he see's someone else and talks to them also, but it is very rude to ignore the rest of you. And why would you want to be with someone who is always lying?

[Marcella]

I don't really think it matters at this point, does it? He broke up with you, says he wants to be single. In other words, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you right now. It may or may not be that he is interested in someone else, perhaps the girl at the mall, but that doesn't matter. He's not stringing you on; he told you that he wants to break up. And you're better off than being with someone who flirts with other girls in front of your face and ignores you when out in public with you (yes, I did sense that's the case from you post).

 

To answer your question about who to believe; again, it's history at this point, but WHY would you even consider believing someone who you said "is always lying to me"?!! Move on. You deserve better than that.

Recently I went to the mall with my Best friend,my son,& my at that time,Boyfriend.We walked in and my boyfriend was always ahead of us.Then he kept talking to a girl he knows.I got real annoyed and asked my friend what she thought he was trying to do.She said he was trying to score with her he said otherwise.I noticed the girl was following us. He said he was just trying to be friendly but i don't know who to beleave. That night me & my man broke up, he said he just wants to be single but he's always lying to me. Please tell me, Who should I beleave?!? Miriam

[Nicky]

I don't really think it matters at this point, does it? He broke up with you, says he wants to be single. In other words, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you right now. It may or may not be that he is interested in someone else, perhaps the girl at the mall, but that doesn't matter. He's not stringing you on; he told you that he wants to break up. And you're better off than being with someone who flirts with other girls in front of your face and ignores you when out in public with you (yes, I did sense that's the case from you post). To answer your question about who to believe; again, it's history at this point, but WHY would you even consider believing someone who you said "is always lying to me"?!! Move on. You deserve better than that.

Exactly Marcella!

 

If he's always lying, who cares what happened with this girl?

 

Find a man you can trust. Good luck!