wanda_t Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 i read my ex girlfriends (something like friends with benefits now) diary a few months ago, which i totally regretted the moment i did it, and she found out yesterday. i ****ed up. and now she wont talk to me. i broke her trust and id do anything to get it back..id do anything to turn back the clock and never have read it. i feel so guilty, i even cried in school today because she means so much to me and i did the worst thing i could have done...all just coz i was jealous. and now i lost the friendship we were just beginning to build up again, after a 3 month crisis. is there anything i can do, other than give her time and hope for her to come along and "forgive" the unforgiveable? ps: what if i gave her my diary to read. at least we'd be equal then? or would it get worse? please guys..i really need your help & would really be glad for answers. thanks.. Link to post Share on other sites
tomswife Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 I know you screwed up but you apologized and asked for her forgiveness. If she can't forgive you then you should get out of that relationship and she should spend the rest of her life finding Mr perfect....where is he I'd like one. If she forgives you the trust we'll come back it is not like you have cheated on her with a prostitute. Link to post Share on other sites
whitbit Posted December 20, 2008 Share Posted December 20, 2008 well, to be honest. I think that getting THAT upset of a diary is a bit childish. Either she's really into privacy or there were things you weren't meant to read. Thats how I see it. I'd tell her to get over it. Link to post Share on other sites
AlektraClementine Posted December 20, 2008 Share Posted December 20, 2008 sometimes you'll get advice from folks on here about how you were the one that totally screwed up by reading her personal stuff. other times, you'll get advice like above saying she should get over it. A diary, to me is even more personal than say a cell phone. The very idea of having a diary is for personal (that means none of anyone else's business) thought/idea recording. You crossed a very big line. She'll either forgive you or not. As for making it right? Something like this can only be made right by your NEVER doing this again. Really. Never. And that will only come in time. Link to post Share on other sites
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