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My ex is pissed. already dating someone else and I truly love her and want her back


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hey guys, i really need some good advice.

My girlfriend and i brook up three weeks ago after a yeah and a half. She just started college this year.(we go to the same school) Anyway, we had ups and downs like any other relationship, but nothing serious. So as soon as she leaves i find outh that she is seeing this soccer player from whales, whom is apparently a real ass. Everyone is like what the hell, why is she with that looser. So basically we havn't talked at all in 3 weeks and i really miss her. I love her so much, and i just cant figure out how to get her back.

 

Its a really crazy situation though, because i'm super close with her familly. So about a week after we broke up rumors are flying around school that shes been sleeping in a dorm room with 4 foreigners. Well things like that don't fly well here. So she's being called a whore and slut ya know. Me caring as much for her as i do i talked to her dad about what i heard and stuff, thinking he would be like ya know thats not how you should present your self, give the talk ya know. Well he gets pissed and jerks her off campus. Now shes living at home and driving to school everyday.

 

Well you can imagine shes pissed at me for that. So all of this on top of her seeing someone else. How do i get her back? I held on to her too tight probably, b/c she was young an d i didnt want to her to get hurt ya know. Now I'm hold onto nothing but a broken heart.

 

What do I do?

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oops... you interferred with her life and her freedom from her family. Her parents must really care for her to take such dramatic measures.

 

Let her life sort out now. It might take some time before she even starts to forgive you for that.

 

But, things happen for a reason my friend. Just trust what is meant to happen will, and take a step back for a moment.

 

ps. I hope you didn't tell her father just to get her in trouble.

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Just leave her alone and let her be. If you keep pressuring her and forcing your way back into her life its gonna turn her off even more. Just try to fill your life up with other things, school, friends, and work or whatever. Maybe she will get with someone else and see that you were really good for her afterall. Just have patience.

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