LittleDove Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 I was just sitting on the lounge, fixing a camera strap, and out of NO WHERE my housemate, walks by me NAKED. Why would a guy DO that, KNOWING I have issue with his obession?? Im in shock. I go away tomorrow for a holiday, and when I return, im moving out, asap. sh*T. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t169504/ thats the whole story...i have my dog here while im away so I am not making a big deal of it- should I leave a note? or confront, or just move out....???? help. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Just move out. Leave no note, no forwarding address, no indication that you can be contacted, or are even willing to be contacted..... Remember what I told you in your other post. He wants a reaction. Any reaction from you will (in his eyes) mean that you are into him. Any response, as far as he's concerned, will mean interest on your part. so leave, and don't even let him know you're going. Enjoy your holiday. Don't spend the whole time thinking of what you have to do when you get back. Rather, use it as a nourishing "me" time to re-charge your batteries, and confirm that life is so much bigger and better than it is with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LittleDove Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 I guess it was always going to happen. Me leave in such a way. i NEVER expected to see his willy! I have no choice, and i think the whole NC and just leaving says it all. Luckily the place im going was already a possible alternative. Im not in a great finacncial position(selling right now) but can stay with friends on a farm for a few months. funny how one door closes... geisha..i knew in my heart it was all wrong, but after the whole relationship ending, i wasnt strong enough to stand up and just go. I guess there was no answer or question, i am simply in shock. Link to post Share on other sites
LavendarGirl Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Make getting out of there a top priority. This guy is crazy, so I don't think you can have a rational conversation with him and he can see his errors and be a better roommate. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 get yourself and your dog to the farm – but only if those folks aren't whacked out the way your current roommate is! as for streaky bum & willy guy, don't say anything, just go. Make sure you're current on your portion of expenses so he doesn't have that to throw in your face, and if he demands to know why you left, firmly let him know that you felt harassed by his unwanted advances, which were not acceptable in y'alls friendship. frankly, I would have just laughed at him for intentionally streaking while you were in the room ... though that could have had an ugly outcome Link to post Share on other sites
Author LittleDove Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 Im just SO glad im going away tomorrow- and will go back, but i will be stuck for storage... (the creep is up in the middle of the night) and my study goes out the window...this is exactly why i need my own home, no more moves caused by other peoples crap! Link to post Share on other sites
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