LDR Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Hi! I have been in a long distance relationship for a year. Last time I saw my guy was 2 months ago and we will be meeting again in 3 months. He has never been the best at communicating in the sense that he is an introvert, which I accept and dont mind much. We talk each day through MSN, but we do not use the phone as it is too expensive and he once told me he doesnt like talking on the phone much. We see each other by webcam 2-3 times a week. The problem lately is that I feel the distance getting to me. He tells me that he feels happy with us, but I am feeling neglected lately, I feel as if he does not love me that much anymore. Our routine is changing, we used to play games, we have not been doing it anymore, he is going to bed earlier than usual (time zone difference of 5 hours). I just feel as if I didnt have a boyfriend in a sense. This has been happening in the past few weeks, which has me very upset and feeling down all the time :S Has anyone had this happen before? Any tips? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
gwynieatpain Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 I just don't want to scare you but please be cautioned of every sign that he gave you. I was in 2 years LD with my ex-fiance where our relationship ended in Oct this year. Not long ago. I didn't aware of his changes since I was being stuffed with works. He usually went to bed at the time when I was still in office (my time is 3 hrs behind his). Even if we called, texted, msn, webcamed and emailed as we have kept on for the past two years, and we met at least 3 times a year ... he just had too much time for himself. I'm not saying that guys are all weak and cannot hold on for a LD. It just that My ex was ... coward, emotionally immature, confused, and cold-hearted. When I looked back I found all the signs that I missed ... the less communication in terms of the content not frequency, the routine conversation that lack of passion and love, his early bedtime (10pm of his time), his claim for staying at his mate's place for a whole night to play ps3 or drink ... etc. I trusted him as a family of mine but at the end I have been cheated on! Didn't know until he broke up with me and his little 'gf' surfaced after a month of the break up. I just hope that you are not repeating my story it just sounds too similar. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LDR Posted December 30, 2008 Author Share Posted December 30, 2008 I read your old posts and what your ex did to you was awful. I will be aware of the warning signs and see what happens. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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