Habibti Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Just would like some opinions... Is it wrong to visit the guy first? He'll pay for everything and put you up in your own hotel room to boot but with his work it would be hell for him to leave, is it wrong to compromise and agree to go there to visit first? Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 Just would like some opinions... Is it wrong to visit the guy first? He'll pay for everything and put you up in your own hotel room to boot but with his work it would be hell for him to leave, is it wrong to compromise and agree to go there to visit first? There's nothing wrong with that. Talk to him. Make arrangements. You guys can probably work something out. Link to post Share on other sites
KikiW Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 I visited my guy first... it just worked out better and I wasn't willing to drag out the wait any longer so I took the initiative. I am glad that I did, too, so don't be too concerned about it Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Bearandsue Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 It shouldn't matter who goes first. All that matters is seeing each other. Take a chance Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 I always find it better to go to their region. I assume this is online dating??? If you go to his region, you can leave if you don't like him. If he comes to you, you are stuck entertaining him if you don't like him. I do online dating, and I always go to their neck of the woods on the first date. That way I can leave whenever I want. I got stuck with a loser that drove an hour to see me once- and I couldn't get rid of him. We were at a restaurant in my neighbourhood and he got drunk and wanted to stay over. I took off out the back door.... He didn't know where I lived- which was a cool thing. He's paying for your visit and hotel? This is your first meeting? Link to post Share on other sites
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