snowflake1 Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 My boyfriend & I have only been togather for a month (as of today!). See we were highschool sweethearts, and we ended up loosing contact with each other. He found me on myspace, and we begin talking again. I broke up with my current boyfriend, and it has just been me & him even since. He has already start to tell me he loves me, and I have told him also (which I do). He has asked me to marry him within the next six months. He constantly talks about it, and honestly I love the whole idea.... but is it too soon? Is it crazy for us to get married sooo soon? I never thought I would even consider marring someone soooo soon, but I guess it is just a different situation since we dated in highschool. I want to marry him, but I just want some other opinons from people who is looking from the outside in. Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 If you met 1 month ago and wanted to get married, I would say thats too fast. Since you were high school sweathearts and dated before, then the time factor may be a little different, HOWEVER you are different people then you were back then and neither of you have gotten a chance to get to know who you are today. I can't really tell you what to do, as this is your life, however I strongly suggest continuing to getting to know one another and holding off on the marriage issue. It's possible that the people you are today are not the people who are meant to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 Do not marry this man until you know him. Which you don't. Link to post Share on other sites
LavendarGirl Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 One month is way too soon to be committed to marriage. Your BF sounds like a great guy, and you probably have the start of something fantastic. But until you get to know each other really well, you don't know if you're suitable for each other in a marriage. He might be insecure about losing you to someone else (hence the marriage talk). And you are flattered the idea that he wants to marry you. Tell him that in 6 months is about when you can talk about getting married. That right now it's way too early. --LG. Link to post Share on other sites
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