You like him but he likes some else..etc

[hanginthere]

Boy do I have this syndrome! I have been seeing this guy for over a month, long distance..etc. He is hot, tall, good looking, good job, younger than me non commital...sex is okay but it needs work, lives an hour away. We text everyday...it is very general..sometimes sex text. He never compliments (well once), really offers no relationship.

 

Anyway, I met this older guy who is all about wining, dining says the right thing at the right time. He is smart, very successful, cute in his own way, healthy, well traveled, in shape, etc, sex is very good, lives near me. Compliments me all the time. He wants a real relationship and of course wants me out of the other one. And is way into me.

 

And I find myself at a cross road, I am really attracted to the first guy...not sure why...looks are a part of it but I think it is something else. I get a feeling that I am not it for him. I like the second guy as well but I am pulling back a lot even though I know that if I wanted a relationship this would be it.

 

So the one I like is non committal and will probably continue this relationship until I put the halt on it. The second guy offers the whole relationship package and yet I want to RUN and just hang with the non committal guy!??

 

Yikes whats wrong with me??