how does one seperate themselves from mentally subnormal people?

[Eve]

Ross, I cant speak for anyone else here but I was reacting to the post based on it being in the 'Self Improvement and Personal Wellbeing' section. Evidently Nana says that he was in fact just ranting .. but really it would be good to state that from the onset within the appropriate place on the site. I think that the above statements would be responded to with far worse criticism there actually!

 

This is because most people naturally feel a protective element towards those who are organically less able than themselves and understand that we have no choice but to care for these needs sensitively. Anyhow, this is how I view the reactions of posters to the scenario posed by Nana.

 

At the end of the day I think its for the best that Nana is not at home that often. His refusal to highlight anything other than a willingness to deflect the natural concern of others here and that of any potential diagnosis by Doctors in the real world.. nor provide even a glimmer of a way in which he is going to deal with this situation in the future has made up my mind that he is an attention seeker.

 

I could say a lot more but decided not to. Please explain how you came to the conclusion that Nana is joking.

 

Regards,

Eve xx

[Ross PK]

I could say a lot more but decided not to. Please explain how you came to the conclusion that Nana is joking.

 

Regards,

Eve xx

 

It just comes across like it, he's made all sorts of topics about not liking fat people, not liking ugly people, etc. Then there was a post where he made a huge contradiction which really seemed to say that he hasn't been being genuine, and his answer to that was 'Lol, people aren't always 100% consistent'. It's like he's just playing around with you guys.

[Geishawhelk]

Yup Ross, you know what, I think you might have a point there.

[nana yaw II]

.. I dont understand. You were just venting but you still stand by what you initially said dont you? Do you want want any advice? ...

 

i don't stand by it. why do you ask?

[nana yaw II]

Because you're being really harsh towards your OWN sister. She IS your family and reguardless of her mental health, she's important and shouldn't be sluffed off as the black sheep of the family.

 

You seem embarressed by her. Actually, you seem embarressed by ANYONE who doesn't fit your criteria. Must be hard for those around you to fit into your life. They have to look a certain way, not be fat, must be pretty and good looking, not ugly.. You seem very hung up on this because I've read afew other threads by you.

 

lol!!!

 

I accept people for who they are, since i hold no right to change them.

[Eve]

Yeah, I also agree with Ross. Well spotted!

 

Regards,

Eve xx

[Geishawhelk]

i'm a pretty open person in real life, and only judge others based on their character or behaviour.

 

Is there any other way....?

I accept people for who they are......

 

If this were true, you wouldn't have posted the following:

 

she certainly acts like it. how exactly should i deal with her?

I think I hold a right to disassociate with mentally subnormal people; i can't help it it's how i think and reason. it's who i am.

Where do I fit in? lol... I just don't like mentally subnormal people, that's all.

[whichwayisup]

lol!!!

 

I accept people for who they are, since i hold no right to change them.

Maybe you need to go back and read this thread again as well afew of your other threads too. You're contradicting yourself all over the place, buddy!

[nana yaw II]

Maybe you need to go back and read this thread again as well afew of your other threads too. You're contradicting yourself all over the place, buddy!

 

if i am, why is it an issue?

[Tony]

if i am, why is it an issue?

 

It's am issue because we don't leave threads with goofy replies on the site. In this case we will close it so you have time to review the replies and get what you need out of it. Best wishes for a great day!