Wife isnt interested physically after 6 years of marriage.

[seibert253]

Get an attorney, file, and have her served. Time for the smackdown to begin.

In all seriousness, we are all sorry it turned out this way. Best thing you can do is take care of yourself and be the best dad you can for your kids.

 

Always look forward, never look back.

[Cali Chris]

Thanks guys, I havent filed yet but I want to, financially it's really difficult for me, I wasnt left in the best situation. I am trying to figure what I can do.

 

It's just hard watching her go on like our marriage meant nothing you know, 2 months later she was already with this guy. I have a lot of pain inside , a lot of issues to work out. I 've been trying my best to keep it together, but I cant help feel like I'm falling apart . I'm trying to look into some counseling, cause having the kids with her and all , I have to have interaction and see her and speak to her, ... my worlds just a mess while I get to watch her be happy and move on with this guy! I only have a few close friends to talk about this with so , like i said , I guess I'm just letting some of my feelings out!!

[Mr. Lucky]

As the old saying goes Chris, living well is the best revenge. While you certainly don't want to rush into a relationship, you also don't want to turn into a hermit. Focus on your kids, join some groups, get out and about. It's the best message to send her...

 

Mr. Lucky

[sensetarget]

Thanks guys, I havent filed yet but I want to, financially it's really difficult for me, I wasnt left in the best situation. I am trying to figure what I can do.

 

man I cant say that I have experienced what you have been going through. But at the moment, you have lost all your self asteem. **** it, you have 3 kids, lay the law on that bitch , get custody , show the judges that shes unfit to be a mother. Still have the phone bills, ect? keep them.

 

Your saying "my worlds just a mess while I get to watch her be happy and move on with this guy", hey bro, they are made for each other, 2 cheaters in 1 relationship. They will most likely have major issues in their relationship, dont down yourself too much.

 

Seriously, start lifting, go to the gym, if you want to scream, **** get a gym in your house and unleash. Or run, trust me youl feel better. Your first step is to better yourself and come out as a champ. Usually karma bites back so just enjoy yourself.

 

THe major focus now, is the kids, and tell her family the truth, let them know what happened, they will probably support you. Any leveled headed person would.

[Cali Chris]

Thanks guys for the words, I have been trying to keep myself active, working out, running when I get the chance. I 'm trying to keep myself occupied as much as I can!! I'm just still passing the stage of everyhting reminds me of her and I just cant seem to get her off my mind. It's the self -esteem issues, like ...I wasnt good enough for her, she wanted someone that could give her what she wanted, you know, ..he has a better job and more money, and I guess that's what she wanted. Crappy thing about this is how she did it all.. never really gave me a chance to try and work it out. So much for better or for worse huh! She just up and started a new life... I have to start a new one too and I know it, it's just hard when your not the one that wanted to start a new one in the first place!! Thanks again for the advice and words they are appreciated!!

[Heroic]

Remember this.....

 

Instead of having a difficult conversation with you, she went out and found somene else.

 

How long is it before a little bit of stress forms in their relationship? Now they are both stuck with a cheater.....that will never sit easy with each other's minds. running off with the person you cheating with is its own punishment, because they both know deep in side that they are both willing and capable of blatantly disregarding their mate and intentionally hurting them.

 

Chris take a page out of Dexters book and realize she did you a favor....find someone who REALY loves you.

 

Before you get into another relationship build up your man skills and your self esteem.

[Cali Chris]

Ya , I know, honestly , I have had a real major break up, that a woman left me. I have only had 2 other girlfriends in my life besides the x , and I left both of them. so i never felt the heartbreak and let down of being left before. I know I have to work on the man skills , I just feel broken and torn up inside. Having the kids together and having to see what she has now and this new guy , puts me down even more.