Bostonboy Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 I am dating a wonderful women, she is great. We have been dating for about 14 months now, and it has been great. She does have alot of male friends but she has told me countless times that they are more like big brothers to her. I trusted her, come to find out she has slept with a few of them. It is not the sex that angers me, it is the lying, she has been out with them drinking numerous times and has even slept over there houses. The last month has been awful, I do not know what to do. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 If she has slept with them during the time you have been dating her exclusively, you have to dump her. If she has been slept with them during a time she has told you they were only platonic friends, you have no choice but to dump her. She may be quite wonderful in many but she lies and can't be trusted and that's always a deal breaker in love and relationships. Think about it....now, everytime she tells you she's going to be spending time with one of her male buddies you're going to wonder if she's screwing them as well. Now, I'm actually wondering why she was so stupid as to tell you what she did. She may be wanting you to dump her...she may be sick of you. Why else would she want to tell you something that would hurt you. If you found out from another source, I hope you have confronted her. If you did and she admitted to these breaches of trust...she needs to be out the door. Trust is like virginity. Once compromised, it can never be regained. Link to post Share on other sites
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