alwayssme Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 For some weird reason something new came to mind today... I wondered how is it possible for them to move on and not even miss us?? well what if they do?? lol..maybe im just fooling myself but i just dont get how they wouldnt...we spent so much time with them, unless they really are heartless...we should be special and remain in their hearts too.... lol...see its these stupid thoughts that make me want to contact me ex ...i keep thinking of how he was for 2 years and think "he HAS to miss me...how can he not?" lol... anyway HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!! I stayed in with my family tonight and dont regret not going to the parties that my friends invited me to....I REALLY hope this year is better for us all because we deserve it. --xoxo:love: Link to post Share on other sites
lofi_tokyo Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 I did New Years with my family too, and you know what? I liked it. I didnt need to go out to enjoy myself - life has been pretty darn good anyways! I'm sure out ex's do miss us somedays Always. There is no doubt in my mind. But they don't miss us enough to hurt us by giving us false hope, they don't want to get back together, they simply miss our company occasionally. Link to post Share on other sites
OCCDAVE Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 I hope its better for me as well as all of us cause i'm tired of hurting.To think a month ago she wanted to marry me and spend her life with me now shes in another guys arms:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
CherishG Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 alwayss, I can guarantee you 100 millionth percent that ofcourse ur ex still thinks of you, and not to say this to give you false hope either. There's absolutely no human being out there who could possibly NOT remember an ex who they have been with for that period of a time and just completely have amnesia... either way, long time no talk! Wishing you a very safe, hopeful and Happy New year! Cherish Link to post Share on other sites
MalachiX Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 I didn't do New Years with my family. For the last three years, New Years was the holiday that my EX and I always spent together (it was also our time to exhange gifts since we spent Christmas with our families). I didn't like the idea of going back home and doing New Years with my parents again. It would feel like I was devolving. Anyway, the whole, "do they miss me" thing is kind of a catch 22 for me. I thought of my EX a lot today because of the importance we placed on New Years. I asked myself, "I wonder if she feels sad too" but honestly didn't want to know the answer since neither would really make me happy. I don't want her to feel as bad as I do since I don't want to think that our relationship left her scared or made her that unhappy. At the same time, the idea that she doesn't care at all isn't exactly comforting either. In all honesty, I'd just prefer not to think about it one way or the other. The same way I hope we don't contact each other for a very long time. Link to post Share on other sites
thegloaming22 Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 yeah, they think about us for sure. the best approach, though, is to assume that they're not thinking of you at all. just don't even bother thinking about it. so if they ever allude to such a thing, it won't hurt you. we're all smart enough to know that they have thought about us whether they want to admit it or not. and, yeah, i hope this is a better year for me and all of you too. Link to post Share on other sites
Surfer Dude Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 They do miss you. No matter what they told you, no matter how many partners they changed afterwards, no matter how much time has gone by, they do miss you. It's impossible not to miss someone who was an integral part of your life for a while. Why do you think dumpers always find an excuse to break NC and contact you after you forget them? Cause they realized what they lost. For most it takes months or even years, but eventually they do remember you. However, it's best to assume they don't, so that you can move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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