i think i may be pregnant and my boyfriend is obsessed with porn

[sweetmind20]

I am unsure of what to think or do right now. I'm scared, and I'm hurting.

Before anyone starts with the " guys looking at porn is normal", i am already aware of that. The thing is, i think my boyfriend has become dependent on it, and i don't know what i should do.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We lost our baby ( a few months ago)at five months ( i miscarried), and that was hell on both of us. we broke up for a period of time, but now we are trying to work things out.

because we have already been through so much, this porno issue with him is especially hurtful. he is aware that i know of his interest in playboy , and i don't mind innocent things like that every now and then. but i have come to find dozens and dozens of pages of hardcore pornography in the history page of his computer. these aren't just "regular" images, they are various. everything from some underage to brutal to incest. i don't know what the heck to think. at first i was horrified and disgusted. right now, i'm feeling angry and hurt. i don't know whether i am making a big deal out of this or what. are these things just taboo and that is what makes them so exciting to guys? or do you think this is indicative of a deeper problem?

i'm scared because i think i may be pregnant again, and i don't want this to have a harmful affect on our child. he is still affectionate with me, still wants to be intimate with me, and even asked me to move in. so, i don't understand where this outpour of pornography is coming from . the history page says he's viewed these sites consistently over the past few weeks, and i am sure this has been going on for awhile. i know he is lonely( i try to get him to go out and meet new people, but he doesn't trust a lot of people) all he does is work and he has one close friend who isn't particularly healthy (he drinks, is into porno) i just need some advice. is it best to confront him, or not? please help!

[VASH THE STAMPEDE]

as far as you finding what may be illigal porn on his history page .it could be a virus from a porno site he might have visited or email links sent to him ,that he open.,once you open them they send you to various pages and they're recorded in your hard drive,and sometime your history page.

if he does look @ that kind of stuff (im sorry to say) you 're headed into trouble.so my suggestion would be to leave him.