kandi13 Posted September 18, 2003 Share Posted September 18, 2003 I went out with this kid for 2 weeks I liked him alot. We broke up off and on during the 2 weeks. I knew his cousin for like ever and I just met ryan this summer. Well I heard rumors from so many people he was a player and he plays girls. I didnt believe anyone not even my best guy friend i knew for 2 years, also known as my ex. He knew ryan and said he was no good. I kno this now. I should have listened. But I liked him so much. I mean alot. I was in my own lil world. Please help me, cuz now I was talking to my best friend and ryan was there along with his 2 cuzins they were sayin stuff about me mean stuff. It hurt so bad I hung up on my friend. She wasnt sayin anything but ryan was in the background and he doesnt even kno how bad I feel. I really liked him, and i think about him alot. But I kno hes no good.....not for me anyways. He lies he cheats and he makes up stories about people. I should have learned my lesson but theres something about him i like alot. I dont kno what to do anymore. I still wish things worked diffrently but it didnt. And I kno things happen 4 a reason theres definantly a good reason all this happened but what? I get hurt so much i cant take my heart bein hurt again it scares me. I wish I never met him I only knew him 3 weeks and thats not long at all my life could have been fine without him. It would be better. But when we were together he never called me and he lied to me and I always had to call him. And when I did call he would make up lies to get off the phone. He called sometimes. I kno he liked me in the beginning cuz I saw it in his eyes but theres nuttin anymore. I dont even wanna be friends with him anymore if thats how hes gonna be to me. I kno I can do better then that ya know. But I still wanna be friends with him I wish he would change and no Im not gonna talk 2 him bout it cuz if he cant just do it on his own then forget that i dont need it so dont give advice I should talk 2 him or anything like that. I just cant believe my best friend now hes hanging out with him like its nuttin when its a big thing to me. There laughing and all but i KNO he dont like her like that cuz shes not like that skinny shes kinda chubby but shes a nice person and I luv her like a sis but hes self centered like that and wouldnt date someone like her.....hes like that. I kno hes a jerk but i just donno plz just help me thanks soooo much luv ya all.... kandi Link to post Share on other sites
sonofhud Posted September 19, 2003 Share Posted September 19, 2003 Why do you go out with kids? Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted September 19, 2003 Share Posted September 19, 2003 I have no idea what kind of advice you are seeking, so I will just make random comments. But when we were together he never called me and he lied to me and I always had to call him. I don't know how old you are, but this is not the sign of a guy who likes you. I think what you saw in his eyes might've been a bit of dust. But I still wanna be friends with him Why? You've known him three weeks. Release him off into the universe so he can lie to someone else. I wish he would change Other than death and taxes, the only sure thing in life is that you cannot change a man. You either accept him as is or reject him and move on. There laughing and all but i KNO he dont like her like that cuz shes not like that skinny shes kinda chubby Grow up. Lots of chubby girls get very hot guys. Maybe she's less judgmental and conceited than you? Or maybe he's using her, too. Whatever...not a nice way to talk about your friend. I don't think you should talk to him or give him the time of day. Better yet, totally ignore him. Move on and find someone new. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kandi13 Posted September 21, 2003 Author Share Posted September 21, 2003 ok first of all Im not making fun of my best friend and im just sayin hes like that there personallity wouldnt click so no im not sayin stuff about my best friend in the whole world........ Link to post Share on other sites
Velvet Eel Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Kandi, you sound young. Maybe in high school? Junior high? This is a painful experience, but you may not even remember it in a couple years. What you can take away with you is the knowlege that some guys are only in it for the challenge. Once you open up, let them know you like them back, have sex, whatever--they're gone. This has nothing to do with you. I know it hurts to be rejected, and it hurts even more when the people close to you still want to be friends with this jerk, but really--you are better off without him. Be proud. You deserve better. And remember that if you have nothing left but your dignity, that's not so bad. Don't let him see you hurting. He doesn't matter. Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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