Author exclusivelyME Posted January 8, 2009 Author Share Posted January 8, 2009 I haven't been able to get to a computer for a few days so yeaa, here goes. Thanks for all the feedback guys but I still don't know what to do. I am DEFINATELY not getting a boob job, ever, so thats not the issue. But I am still not confident with how my chest looks. anne1707, Maybe you haven't felt what I feel because our dimensions are different. How tall are you? How much do you weigh? I say this because my cousin also has the same bra size as us but they seem to "fit" her a lot better. They look far more proportional to her size. I don't want a drastic increase in breast size--I don't think I'd look right with huge boobs nor do I want them too big. I just want a C cup. I think those will look great on me and make me feel more comfortable in my own skin. I want to be able to wear a top and not feel shy about showing some cleavage. With bigger boobs, I'll be more secure with what I have. I hadn't always felt like this. These feelings arose fairly recently, around the same time I started college. College girls look A LOT older than I do LOL. That combined with my turning 18 and an upcoming wedding made me feel I don't have enough up top. I want to be able to fill out the brides maid gown and have my boobs look great in it. The other brides maids have larger boobs and they'll look great in those dresses and I just don't wanna be the worse looking one. I'm even thinking of telling my cousin I don't want to be a brides maid. I am fully confident in the rest of my features but I don't feel my breasts look as they should in order to make my body proportionate--they're just too small. I always believed the only way to increase breast size was through surgerey but I really feel this product might work for me. I've been looking at pictures of other women before and after using Breast Actives and they look reeeeally good. Drastic enlargements and they have shaplier breasts. I want that. I'm sorry for taking your time with my self-conscious issues. I just don't know how to talk to anyone else about this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exclusivelyME Posted January 8, 2009 Author Share Posted January 8, 2009 and thanks for taking your time to right responses and trying to make this young girl feel better Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 I am slim but only 5ft so yes, our proportions will be different. As for you thinking 34B is bad, I used to be a 36AA. Now that is a hellish size to try and buy bras for. But my body has changed over the years and now I love the size of my breasts as here I am in my forties and they look as good as they did when in my twenties. They are firm and pert ;) As for looking good in clothes, invest in some good bras - a bit of padding/gel is a hell of a lot easier to get than surgery - and the results are good. I wear a lot of figure hugging tops and am more than happy to show off my very resepectable cleavage I also know that there are clothes I can wear that others maybe can't because their breasts are too big. Please don't despair. To be honest I think having a negative body image is not uncommon at your age - there is so much pressure to look a certain way but that is just nonesense. It is always better to be yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 If you're only 18, chances are that your breasts will naturally get bigger on their own over time. Just settle down girlie, cleavage isn't the end of the world. Link to post Share on other sites
Neutrino Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 Actually being on the pill also makes the boobs bigger too. The standard contraceptive pill makes the body think it is pregnant - so the same effect. Don't bother with a boob-job - young people often don't think long-term and end up with regrets - however - even if you can take the implants out - your breasts will look like two empty wallets afterwards. A guy who would date you for your knockers - would move along the minute a larger set shows up - and there is always a larger set... Wait a few years - until then buy a padded bra. Link to post Share on other sites
Franc Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 Again, from a guy's perspective, padding is the way to go! I love my wife's small breasts and would never trade them for bigger ones. She does have a few padded bras that make her breasts look bigger (she wears between an A and B cup..). She does look good in them when she wears a tank top or a dress, but from my perspective, i just can't wait to take it off and get to the real thing! I think it's the difference between what she wears that make me continually notice how beautiful she is, not the size of her boobs. Also, i wouldn't like to go out with a girl that's just eye candy for the whole crowd. How you attract attention to yourself is entirely up to you. It's easy to just show some skin and get looks, or you could shine with your smile and personality. My wife's breasts are my little treasure to kiss and cuddle, and i love the fact that she keeps them hidden from the world except for me. It makes me feel special and very lucky. Link to post Share on other sites
Rebellious Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 Hey guys, So, I have been doing some research on breast enlargement by natural means as I do not have the money nor do I want to subject myself to the potential consequences of breast augmentation surgery. BEFORE YOU CLICK ON 'BACK', this is not a thread asking how to achieve this. Anyway, I recently turned 18 and am not confortable with my current boob size. They are a 34B, and because I'm 5'9" and slim, they look even smaller. While I am quite confident of my facial features and rest of my body, I am very self conscious and dread going to the beach or wearing low cut blouses because I feel embarrassed. All my girlfriends and family members my age have larger breasts. Even my cousins that are much younger than me have bigger boobs! Not only this but I feel having smaller breasts compromises my chances to find a potential boyfriend. I would like to look good not only to look more appealing to the opposite sex but also to feel better about myself. And before you overly nice guys (BTW thanks for being that way but I would rather you be 100% truthful in this situation) say breast size doesn't matter, smaller boobs are better, other physical features are more important, or personality is what you're after, you can't argue the fact that nice shapely breasts are really nice to look at, hence creating attraction. Ok, back to the subject. Just recently I came across Breast Actives, a product claiming to increase breast size and create fuller, more toned boobs. While there are many such products in the market today claiming to do just such but ultimately end up to be scams and I didnt believe there was a product to alleviate me, this one seemed different. It is made of all natural herbs which are all approved by the Food and Drug Administration and labeled under their list of "safe foods" and I have yet to find a negative critique of it. I have read quite a few stories of people claiming it worked for them, increasing their breasts anywhere from 1-3 cup sizes, firming them a considerable amount and did so in as little as one month (most commonly 2-6 months). I have read up quite a lot on this product and have become increasingly intrigued by it and am seriously considering purchasing it. Has anyone here heard of this? Used it? If so, did it work? What is your opinion of it? Anything you know of this will be extremely helpful, especially if you've used it, so please help this girl out Leave your boobies alone, men love tall skinny girls. Just know that some guys are "leg men" and they don't much care for boobs. I prefer flatties, big boobs do nothing for me, in fact huge boobs gross me out. Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 Anyway, I recently turned 18 and am not confortable with my current boob size. They are a 34B, and because I'm 5'9" and slim, they look even smaller. OK, so looks matter a lot in attraction, let's just cut though the bull**** and get that out in the open right away. Having said that, bigger really isn't better and 34B on a slim girl is pretty much perfect in my opinion, so just be aware that a lot of guys don't subscribe to the bigger is better school of thought, particularly the ones who are not morons. Honestly for me it's more about shape and I've no idea what sort of things there are out there to control that. As long as they're not flat hanging bags of meat I would recommend you dress in a way that capitalizes on your slim figure while still being modest. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 Okay I know this isn't the answer you want to hear because you want to know HOW to acheive it but I say why? REALLY WHY? Think about it? WHY do you want bigger boobs? Because you are insecure about them? WHY? Because you think guys wont like you? Or because you know girls with bigger boobs and feel jealous? I blame society page 3 and plastic obsession. Loads of girls have fake boobs now. Real boobs just like people come in all shapes and sizes - from girls that have the chest of a schoolboy to women too far down the alphabet... a B is a nice size I personally think. I could understand if you were completely flat chested but a B and a C are in my opinion the nicest sizes for breasts I think D, E, F can be a bit TOO big and a lot of the girls I know with breasts that size are either overweight, have fake boobs or have a lot of backpain with them. Plus when they are pregnant they'll get even bigger. Learn to embrace your breasts as they are or at least TRY to. At a young age, I think insecurities are usually misguided. Give yourself a while to gain in confidence and self-security and see if that insecurity about your breasts is still there. I bet you it will disapear! (Sorry I am just really against boob jobs and surgery!) Link to post Share on other sites
citizen67 Posted January 24, 2009 Share Posted January 24, 2009 A good pushup bra will make a world of difference Link to post Share on other sites
PinkKittyKat Posted January 24, 2009 Share Posted January 24, 2009 I have small boobs and boy do I appreciate them now that I am older. The good thing about small boobs? They stay up and perky. Also, your boobs will keep growing. At your age I was a 34A. I am now a 36B and this year I started having some cleavage. So, by the time you hit my age (33), you'll probably be a C-cup. Don't get me wrong, I understand the desire for bigger boobs. But having small boobs really won't affect your chances of getting a great boyfriend. Yeah I was a 34A when I was 18, by the time I hit 24 I grew boobs!!!! I was a late bloomer! I have 34C now.... sometimes the boobs fairy doesn't come til you're older. And I know for a FACT a lot of men prefer well-shaped perky tits. Link to post Share on other sites
nama Posted January 25, 2009 Share Posted January 25, 2009 I'm between 32A and 32B - so I'm SMALL. But they're perfect. This hasn't affected my chances with men! When men chat to me I don't have to worry about them talking to my chest. I know that when a man wants to get with me I know its not because of my breasts (like with other women I know). I know when I'm with a man and I take my bra off my boobs don't hit the floor. Small breats mean that you will look classy in ANYTHING! I do use gel bras but at the end of the day I know that I've been given what I've been given so I best just get on with it. Have more faith in yourself and be confident. If you are confident in yourself nothing will get you down no matter how small your breasts are. N x Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 25, 2009 Share Posted January 25, 2009 Dearest Loveshack Ladies, We guys will appreciate your boobs - big or small. You like us and we chose you for a reason - we like you!! Sincerely, You'reasian Link to post Share on other sites
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