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TeddJohnson99

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Ok, i really need help...

My girlfriend of about a year broke up with me at the end of the school year, on good terms, because she was going to a different school... I went up to my dad's house and i didn't talk to her for a while (she was a camp) then when she got home, she called me, and we got back togther (yay!!!) she then left for another camp, but we talked form time to time... after nto hearing from herfor a week i called her because i was going camping and wouldn't be able to talk to her... she sounded kind of like "woah, he called me?" and we didn't get to talk for long... about a week later i got home and se called me and told me that she had a new boyfriend for 2 weeks... i was deistated, but didn't let her know... we have kinda fought over it, but i have stoped fighting, not worth it... this past saturday, she came to a party of mine(she flirted with, me and like 2 other guys), and the next night she dumped him(he had lived in maryland and she and i both live in souther california) i have talked to her scince then and she hasn't left me any hints about what to do... a friend of hers said she doesn't think she wants me back but hten siad "something things that BFF's tell you are conficdential and you aren't supposed to tell" and so i don't know what the hell to do... another friend of her's (also a good friend of mine, i kept them form commiting suicide) said she will find out for me, but hasn't had the chance... My ex is thowing a suprise Birthday party this weekend, and i think i should at least wait until then before i do anything... please help me, i love her more than anything, and i want he back...

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Not much you can do really. Actually the best thing to do is just let her be. Shes obviously making sure all of her options are available, how convenient for her to just have you at her mercy. Don't trust her friends to be honest with you. Come on, they are her friends! BTW, you guys go camping a lot? You must live in a great place. If I were you, I know how hard this sounds, I would ask myself if all of this is worth it. Going back and forth to different schools, camps, parents houses, "whoa he called me", and other boyfriends. Give her space and let her come to you.

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No, at my dad's house there are plenty of places to camp, but here no... she went to a camp in maryland (for smart ppl) while i was traped in oregon... yeah, personally i think its worth it, but i really don't know what to do... and i know that if i don't do something, she's gonna like someone else...damn life is confusing...

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