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ComaWhite

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ComaWhite

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Recently I met this beautiful chick. We flirted all the time. And got pretty a little heavy. Then like a month or so ago she told me, that she was in love with two guys. Her ex and some other guy. I recently seen a picture of one of them and her in bed his shirt was on and she was smiling. Never thought nothing til I told my friend aboutit and she slapped since. I bitched at the chick for a day and ignored her for some time. She wanted me to forgive her. So I forgave her. Because love is about forgiveness or atleast I think.But I didn't trust her at all. So recently I asked her out and she would never give me an answer. Or said it was because I didn't trust her.

 

She seemed so determine to get my trust back. But never showed the actions. Basically it was just all words. I told her. I'd start trusting her if we dated. Then I'd knew she would quit ****ing flirting with every guy and tell them to back off. She was talking about how she'll save up 1100 pounds to fly to the US from the UK for me. I never believed her on it. Anyways. She created a new profile on this site. And it had in her profile what I wanted her to say. So I guess, I could start trusting her again. Then some guy left a commit on one of her pictures. Where she is looking into the camera holding her baby niece.

 

And it says "aww i can't wait till your here and we starts a family.. yes people its what is going to happens." He lives in Nebraska a few states from me. Then I looked on his profile and she how he is so in love with her and what not. And in his blog is says "I lvoe her and she loves me". After seeing that I ****ing blew my top. And told her off. And she was telling me something along of the lines "Because you didn't trust me. I tried to move on and I found him". And I just went into shock.

 

I mean if she really wanted my trust. Why did she have to pull this crap. I knew she would do it again that is why I didn't trust her. Yet I feel so much like crap. Which I don't know why, if I knew she would do that to me again. And she wonders why I don't trust her. And basically I told her. I told you not to risk me and what not. Just don't talk to me , don't write me, don't call me or I would seen you naked pictures to everyone. Which I already sent to her other ex xD. Why am I feeling this way :lmao:

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Charles1978

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You two aren't even dating. Read your post and tell me why she should try a relationship with you. Not going to happen man. You are turning her off by being so controlling and jealous... and y'all aren't even dating! In the future, stop this behavior. This one is done, I'm afraid. Good luck in the future!

 

Oh BTW, you actually wrote this... "I would seen you naked pictures to everyone. Which I already sent to her other ex xD".

 

This threat shows me that you have some serious problems. Until you solve them, you are in for more of the same. Start treating women right and stop being like this and you'll have a much happier and successful dating life.

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Yeah I know sorry. I'm being serious. So a chick that tells you that she loves you as more than a friend and ****. Talks about living together and what not. Yeah sure. But you don't do that stuff to a person. Calls you all the time, tells you "I love you more than anything" everyday. Talks deep stuff then pulls that. I mean thats playing with my head and my heart. You don't tell someone you love them and all that and make it sounds all good then freaking kiss on another guy. And screw him out like he doesn't matter.

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So you've only known her for three months, you aren't in a relationship, and she tells you she loves you every day. Something doesn't add up. Bottom line is that you should stop attacking and smothering her. Unless you two have entered a relationship and made it clear that you are exclusive, you have no right to act like you're acting.

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Charles is right.

 

Stop giving her so much attention and smothering her with all of your time.

 

Women want a few things from men:

 

Security, trust, and confidence from you.

 

Security--You need to be the "tribal leader" and take control of the situation. Make her realize that SHE'S going to be missing out if she doesn't get her act straight and that you have a lot to offer to a special someone and that the spot for that special someone is still open.

 

Trust--No women wants to be with a man who has trust issues, regardless of your past. You need to give her the space she needs and show her limited care; especially in the beginning. You've only known her for 3 months and you two aren't even dating so you're in phase one of building trust with her.

 

Confidence--IMO, this is a very important one. As much as society considers looks to be the leading factor of this characteristic, you need to learn to become a better person for yourself. Convince yourself that this girl needs to be chasing you, not you chasing her. Look really into her and don't let her good looks fool you. See what more she has going for herself besides her looks because physical attraction will eventually fade and the real personality will be left to surface. Take some pride in your actions and even if you have to suck it up at times and put your foot down, so be it; it just makes you look more like the leader.

 

There's a lot more to this because I've studied the art of seduction and the psychology of women but for you to apply what I've stated is enough to help you through this. Keep it up man! =)

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