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sawadee New Member

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hi

i am a girl - i met this guy..

very sweet..now.1 month in...he wants me to do him up the butt..he is planning on buying the equipment ! yes ! :"a strap on" thing - imagine if i die and this thing gets found in my flat by my mum !

arrrrrrrrrr

help me ! ANSWER !

guys ...why would you want this? ..if you are not gay..is it because of sensitivity down there..or the need to be dominated?

girls....did you meet guys like this? did you do it ?

thank you...please save me the rude answer..i am serious..a nit undershock..i don,t know what to think !

I AM NOT A PERVERT. !

THE GUY IS DAMN CUTE...!

what else...i am 40 ..he is 30

:bunny::love::bunny::laugh::cool::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick:

Geishawhelk Established Member

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Right, first of all, I hate to say it, but notwithstanding your age you sound a little immature.

Or maybe just inexperienced....

A lot of guys like it that way, and are completely heterosexual.

It's not that unusual.

secondly, if you happen to think it's gross, or not something you really want to do - tell him.

You come across as someone who thinks this is crude, lewd and unnatural.

In which case he'sprobably not the guy for you.

 

It's also possible he's bi-sexual, but this is something you'll have to discuss with him.

With maturity and seriousness.

Everyone has a right to be what they are.

He doesn't have a problem but you seem to....

 

Your own aversion is your problem.

It's not his.

The Collector Established Member

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A lot of guys like it that way, and are completely heterosexual.

It's not that unusual.

 

I'd say some guys like it, but 'a lot?' While I agree that there's nothing wrong with it, I don't think it's very common for a heterosexual man to want to be done up the bum with a strap-on... or am I wrong?

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I was in a relationship with a heterosexual male for quite a while, who liked anal activities. He had a very large dildo before I was even in a relationship with him. He also enjoyed auto-fellatio, and tranny porn...among other things. He had wanted to get me a strap-on but the relationship ended before that happened.

 

It feels good to them because of the prostate gland located adjacent to the anus.

 

Anyway, I also dated someone who liked the feeling he'd get from withholding going poo....for some reason that one bothered me more than the other guy's interests.

 

Pretty normal, I'd say....if you're uncomfortable with it don't do it. You don't want to feel obligated...and he wouldn't like it if you were laughing during the experience or making fun of him in any way.

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If you didn't write your age, I would guess you were 18 from the posting style. Weird.

 

Anyway, it's certainly a nice fetish, but it's not abnormal or wrong.

 

If you're comfortable with it, give it a try - you might enjoy driving for a change ;)

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No, she's not 18. She just old and happy with any attention she is getting these days. I am close to her age so I can understand her somewhat. What used to be a deal-breaker is now just something u find interesting. Hey, IMO, sawadee you should just enjoy it for what it is and don't get caught up in all the social condemnations. But try not to break any hearts in the process. have fun!

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I can't imagine any man, who is captivated with his sweetheart, wanting to get a dildo up his ass. You have only been going out a month. This should be time for hand holding, stolen kisses in the park, staring at one another googly eyed over lattes. Why hand over your beauty for a fetish that may portend of darker things lurking underneath? I'm sure you deserve much more than that.

 

Saville

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Awwww...sounds sweet. I wish it were really like that. Unfortunately this isn't 1950 and we have to make the best of it.

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Owwww.

 

I remember me and my friends were having a "would you" discussion. The offer was, "You can have sex with any woman in the world of your choice, under one condition. She has to do you in the ass."

 

We came to the consensus that we'd accept the offer if we did the sex first and anal later.

Saville Member

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Awwww...sounds sweet. I wish it were really like that. Unfortunately this isn't 1950 and we have to make the best of it.

 

Oh, I'm sure there were deviants wanting it up the ass from their girl back in the fifties, too. Maybe they would have used one of those coke bottles that seemed so ubiquitous.

 

I don't know what "having to make the best of it" means. Do you mean that a woman who wishes the love of a man nowadays must be ready to forsake even basic courtship in favour of ramming her man with a latex toy? They have gone out a mere month, and already he is asking her to sate this kind of predilection. What pleasure will she be getting from "doing" her man?

 

When you meet someone that you really like, and want to be intimate with them, don't you want to figure out how to really make love to them? There are necks to be kissed, and nipples, and all parts of the body to be caressed. Even the act of kissing can feel sacred. Yet, this poor woman, who has met this "kind" man, will not get to experience that through the arc of her romance. Instead, she will have to degrade this experience in favour of packing his fudge.

 

Yes, to each their own, but by the sounds of things, this woman is not that inspired by engaging in such a sexual experience.

 

Saville

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I'd say some guys like it, but 'a lot?' While I agree that there's nothing wrong with it, I don't think it's very common for a heterosexual man to want to be done up the bum with a strap-on... or am I wrong?

 

Granted, I haven't been with a lot of guys, but yeah, most of them love it. ;) I think it helps that I make them feel comfortable and safe enough to ask for it, though.

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Oh, I'm sure there were deviants wanting it up the ass from their girl back in the fifties, too. Maybe they would have used one of those coke bottles that seemed so ubiquitous.

 

I don't know what "having to make the best of it" means. Do you mean that a woman who wishes the love of a man nowadays must be ready to forsake even basic courtship in favour of ramming her man with a latex toy? They have gone out a mere month, and already he is asking her to sate this kind of predilection. What pleasure will she be getting from "doing" her man?

 

When you meet someone that you really like, and want to be intimate with them, don't you want to figure out how to really make love to them? There are necks to be kissed, and nipples, and all parts of the body to be caressed. Even the act of kissing can feel sacred. Yet, this poor woman, who has met this "kind" man, will not get to experience that through the arc of her romance. Instead, she will have to degrade this experience in favour of packing his fudge.

 

Yes, to each their own, but by the sounds of things, this woman is not that inspired by engaging in such a sexual experience.

 

Saville

 

Well...I could be wrong, but I feel like one month in is too early to be exploring the kinky side. So I agree with you. I'd think enjoying each other during "vanilla" sex would be enough, at first.

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hi thanks for your response..the "sick " words...at teh end of my post came out..from a green smily who must have had the word sick...under..i actaully do not think the boy is sick at all...

i am actually very open minded...i posted this to gather if this kinda things are common..

.not to be judged and called names,,

i say...if the boys likes it...yes ..i might do him up the bum !

;)

but i am not going to a shop to buy the thingy ...yes there..i am stuck up..maybe ! thank you ;)

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sawadee New Member

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I'd say some guys like it, but 'a lot?' While I agree that there's nothing wrong with it, I don't think it's very common for a heterosexual man to want to be done up the bum with a strap-on... or am I wrong?

thats what i thought...i saw more than one boy naked.,..i was never asked to use objects and insert them for extra pleasure.. ;)...

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but i am not going to a shop to buy the thingy ...yes there..i am stuck up..maybe ! thank you ;)

 

Let's hope you do not get 'stuck up' or you may have to call the neighbours for help.

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I can't imagine any man, who is captivated with his sweetheart, wanting to get a dildo up his ass. You have only been going out a month. This should be time for hand holding, stolen kisses in the park, staring at one another googly eyed over lattes. Why hand over your beauty for a fetish that may portend of darker things lurking underneath? I'm sure you deserve much more than that.

 

Saville

hi ..kisses in the parc..holding hands...in the parc...it's minus 3 today....

.anyway.... this in london...and... it is not like before...50's 80's..

.people have no time for anything..they play text games..and at the end of teh day ..london is full of sex opportunities...guys can always find a 23 years old blond to bed...~( would he take his strap on in his bag ? ;))

this mister cute went straight to the point...i did get the romantic stuff actually...still now...

this boy doesnt know his bum from his head..

very very confusing...

bum or no bum...

i really wonder what is the point to sex without feeling...

oi ...who said i was old !

this is not the point...

to those abusers...... read ! :

i am not getting it and putting up with it because i am desperate...i am 42 ..i am still choosing my men...myself...

i havent lowered my standarts !#

this guy is real hot and stuff.. !

hair on his heads...no belly..

and very romantic..

why does he have to want his gland pressed on, by the inside ???

please..boys...go out...we need more men out and about !

sawadee ka ! ;)

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sawadee New Member

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Let's hope you do not get 'stuck up' or you may have to call the neighbours for help.

i'll call you...give me your number ! ;)

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lol..

 

this is a misconception i don't really understand, that a lot of people seem to have. if a straight man likes in his ass, it's generally because of pleasure. some gay men who have anal sex a lot that i know say that, to them at least, prostate pleasure is better than genital pleasure. so in that sense i can understand why any man, whether straight or gay, would enjoy something in his ass.

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i'll call you...give me your number ! ;)

 

I think I'd need to borrow a lot of pills to get that image out of my head.

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but i am not going to a shop to buy the thingy ...yes there..i am stuck up..maybe ! thank you
I can build you one, assuming you don't want a pre-owned one ;)

 

On-topic, as mentioned, not unusual. Prostatic stimulation can result in very powerful orgasms. This guy, since it's a strap-on deal, might have some homosexual or transgender fantsasies.

 

Perhaps you are sexually incompatible. That's OK too. Next :)

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sawadee, khun khon tai mai kup?

 

anyways, I was listening to this radio show in LA a few years back (I think it might have been Mark and Brian on KLOS) and they had this sex specialist on, who was saying if you massage a man's "G Spot" or whatever it is up there, you can create some pretty powerful orgasms.

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Rebellious Established Member

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hi

i am a girl - i met this guy..

very sweet..now.1 month in...he wants me to do him up the butt..he is planning on buying the equipment ! yes ! :"a strap on" thing - imagine if i die and this thing gets found in my flat by my mum !

arrrrrrrrrr

help me ! ANSWER !

guys ...why would you want this? ..if you are not gay..is it because of sensitivity down there..or the need to be dominated?

girls....did you meet guys like this? did you do it ?

thank you...please save me the rude answer..i am serious..a nit undershock..i don,t know what to think !

I AM NOT A PERVERT. !

THE GUY IS DAMN CUTE...!

what else...i am 40 ..he is 30

:bunny::love::bunny::laugh::cool::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick::sick:

 

There are no normal guys that want to date older women. You are his mommy and he wants to be punished .:bunny:

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I don't think it's unusual. What goes on in peoples bedrooms is private. I think a lot more men than you'd think are interested in this but obviously just keep it to themselves. I think when you are comfortable with a partner, depending on your sexual adventurousness, there are a LOT of things you want to try, and not always the safe, vanilla things.

Justmike101 Established Member

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there's no such thing as "straight wants it up the butt"

Geishawhelk Established Member

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'Fraid there is, mike. ;)

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