bluesmoke Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 I have been going out with this guy for almost five months and our sex was realy great but he has this problem that sometimes he can cum and somtimes he just cant and goes limp. It has been getting worse and I realy love him and dont know what to do. I know that he loves me too. He said he use to jerk off alot and it does not happen when he playing with himself, so why does it never happen then and with me it does. Its got to the point where sex is not good because I dont think he is attracted to me. Then when he leaves Im even more upset because I know he's going home and jerking off to porn and pleasing himself. He say's its not me but I cant help but feel that way. I have never had this problem before, my last bf always went too soon and we had to stop all the time so it wouldnt end. Its like one extreme to another Link to post Share on other sites
gopher Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 He probably needs to quit masturbating altogether for a while and maybe then he'll be able to come during sex with you. I can see why you'd be upset, but this is his issue and he'd have it with any woman, it's not specific to you and your sex together. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 I have been going out with this guy for almost five months and our sex was realy great but he has this problem that sometimes he can cum and somtimes he just cant and goes limp. It has been getting worse and I realy love him and dont know what to do. I know that he loves me too. He said he use to jerk off alot and it does not happen when he playing with himself, so why does it never happen then and with me it does. Its got to the point where sex is not good because I dont think he is attracted to me. Then when he leaves Im even more upset because I know he's going home and jerking off to porn and pleasing himself. He say's its not me but I cant help but feel that way. I have never had this problem before, my last bf always went too soon and we had to stop all the time so it wouldnt end. Its like one extreme to another Sorry to hear this. Very strange, I've never had problems having orgasms - is he physically healthy? Is he undergoing alot of stress? Link to post Share on other sites
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