Watchdog895 Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 Hello all, In my years and years of attempting to go out with multiple women, searching for the right one, there's one thing I have learned about women that they will do if they want to get serious in a relationship. What she'll do is she'll run a test. This may not be a direct test, she'll probably give it to you indirectly, just to see if you're the right material. She'll kind of sneak things in that you won't even notice, and she wants you not to notice. Why? Because when she sneaks something in casually, it makes you more obliged to tell the truth. Usually, you'll be having a conversation with her, and she'll sneak something in like "So have you had other dates before?" which is obviously very direct. In fact, that's probably the most direct she'll get with you. The key to passing this test is simply knowing the signs and finding out when to say what. Thoroughly consider every word, every letter that exits her mouth, and contemplate your answer to fit the one she has in her head. By repeating those steps, she'd have a good opinion about you, and even consider asking you out, at the bare minimum. There is one drawback; some of the answers you say might not exactly be 'you'. Before saying them, tweak them a little to make them sound more like you, but still fitting her answer. By using these tips, you should get any girl you're interested in in no time flat. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 The key to passing this test is simply knowing the signs and finding out when to say what. Thoroughly consider every word, every letter that exits her mouth, and contemplate your answer to fit the one she has in her head. By repeating those steps, she'd have a good opinion about you, and even consider asking you out, at the bare minimum.Or she might think you're brain dead and move on to the next guy while you're still contemplating what to say. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 hu? why would you fear simple questions? Do you have anything to hide? Link to post Share on other sites
MN randomguy Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 The key to passing this test is simply knowing the signs and finding out when to say what. Thoroughly consider every word, every letter that exits her mouth, and contemplate your answer to fit the one she has in her head. By repeating those steps, she'd have a good opinion about you, and even consider asking you out, at the bare minimum. Oh, so all I have to do is know what she's thinking, be able to anticipate what she wants and be that? Easy, I don't know why I've been getting so frustrated. Link to post Share on other sites
39388 Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 I know if I were to get the question "So have you had other dates before?" the date would be over in a second. I'm almost 35 and never dated and if I do get this question there is no way I could lie. I'm a terrible liar anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 Usually, you'll be having a conversation with her, and she'll sneak something in like "So have you had other dates before?" which is obviously very direct. In fact, that's probably the most direct she'll get with you. Wow, that's a very direct question... sure is indeed. Yep. Okay, have a good evening. Link to post Share on other sites
fishtaco Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 Err... women test you all the time. Starting as soon as she considers you for a first date. Guess what, you should test women too. There are a lot of crazies out there. Link to post Share on other sites
Jada Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 Well what you said was correct for me, I'm a female and ask indirect questions, in fact I ask a series of them. Just a subtle way of finding out what I need to know, kind of builds a picture about the person. Link to post Share on other sites
birdie Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 Hello all, In my years and years of attempting to go out with multiple women, searching for the right one, there's one thing I have learned about women that they will do if they want to get serious in a relationship. What she'll do is she'll run a test. This may not be a direct test, she'll probably give it to you indirectly, just to see if you're the right material. She'll kind of sneak things in that you won't even notice, and she wants you not to notice. Why? Because when she sneaks something in casually, it makes you more obliged to tell the truth. Usually, you'll be having a conversation with her, and she'll sneak something in like "So have you had other dates before?" which is obviously very direct. In fact, that's probably the most direct she'll get with you. The key to passing this test is simply knowing the signs and finding out when to say what. Thoroughly consider every word, every letter that exits her mouth, and contemplate your answer to fit the one she has in her head. By repeating those steps, she'd have a good opinion about you, and even consider asking you out, at the bare minimum. There is one drawback; some of the answers you say might not exactly be 'you'. Before saying them, tweak them a little to make them sound more like you, but still fitting her answer. By using these tips, you should get any girl you're interested in in no time flat. I hate to rain on your parade but first of all, both men and women test. My male friends tell me about stuff like that all the time. Most of us are well used to that. Secondly, most people realise that you have to see if someone's actions match their words before you can trust them so they will spot your pretense quickly and will stop taking seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
vulcan Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 This is my take on this. I have been on a few dates where nothing has came out of it. All the girls that I did end up having a relationship with. heres what happened... 1. both of you just know that it is going to be a realtionship it is like a feeling an instinct or something and you just know it. 2. If you don;t get that feeling then if the girl wants a realtionship with you she will make that very clear. IE: she will call and wont play those games like should I call today or make him wait NO if they want you they will call the next day or even the same night after a date. 3. If they are serrious they will let you know by the way they talk IE: yeah your friend Carole thinks we would make a good couple. I can't wait to go camping with you guys. You have a motorcycle!!!!! OH wow I can't WAIT for you to give me a ride sometime. If A girl is into you she will make that very clear anything else especialy trust your gut if you have to question or have doubt that she is inot chances are she isn't Same as if I dig a girl. I make it very clear my intentions Source: My personal experience Link to post Share on other sites
confused_2008 Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 This is my take on this. I have been on a few dates where nothing has came out of it. All the girls that I did end up having a relationship with. heres what happened... 1. both of you just know that it is going to be a realtionship it is like a feeling an instinct or something and you just know it. 2. If you don;t get that feeling then if the girl wants a realtionship with you she will make that very clear. IE: she will call and wont play those games like should I call today or make him wait NO if they want you they will call the next day or even the same night after a date. 3. If they are serrious they will let you know by the way they talk IE: yeah your friend Carole thinks we would make a good couple. I can't wait to go camping with you guys. You have a motorcycle!!!!! OH wow I can't WAIT for you to give me a ride sometime. If A girl is into you she will make that very clear anything else especialy trust your gut if you have to question or have doubt that she is inot chances are she isn't Same as if I dig a girl. I make it very clear my intentions Source: My personal experience In my limited experience, this is the same thing I've found. If she's into me, there's no doubt. Then it's all up to me not to mess it up Link to post Share on other sites
Rebellious Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 Girls place too much importance on words, that's their downfall. Put on earplugs, hear nothing, and judge him only by his actions. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 I don't change my words or actions when meeting a woman. She gets to see who I am upfront and if it works, great - if not, okay. The only issue with what the OP suggests is that your clever wording facade will wear off when you are with the woman and she will see your words (and actions) as they are. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 Forget the b/s. Just be yourself and if it works, it works. When you pretend to be someone else, it's an absolute disappointment and dealbreaker, when the real you comes through. And you wonder why some women test men? This is the kind of crap that just reinforces a need for tests, tests which shouldn't need to happen, if everyone is themselves from the beginning. Link to post Share on other sites
busy_married_student Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 honestly guys, if you fake it and give unreal answers you will just be attracting her to some fake person. she won't be attracted to you. one day you will have act like yourself and she will realize she isn't interested. there are billions of people on teh planet. somebody will take you as is,faults and all. eg. I asked a guy how many women he had dated. what did i want? honesty. I am a medical professional for crying out loud, I just wanted an assesment of STD risk without coming out and saying it. it wasn't assesment of character, commitment or anything. I think people overread questions too much sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
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