coolindian27 Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 I happened to read this article: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/183525/10_ways_sexuality_is_present_in_the.html?singlepage=true&cat=7.[url=http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/183525/10_ways_sexuality_is_present_in_the.html?singlepage=true&cat=7.][/url] It just reminded me of few of the behaviors of a female co-worker. She used to be very friendly to me, comes to work in casual skirt, goes up the stairs without holding her skirt. The company has a dress code that the skirt shouldn't be more than 3 inches above the knees. I am not sure if she has violated that dress code. Once, she explained that she got a sun burn in a provoking manner. She got up from her chair, moved right in front of me. She was wearing a skirt. She just took a quick look outside the conference room. Touching her belly with both her hands "It's here in my belly" and then, touching her inner thighs close to her crotch, she said "It's here too. I was sitting with my legs crossed". There was a pink colored chair in the room. She said "It's between this color and red". How many of you think this woman's actions were provocative? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 She might have just said : " Larry I have a sunburn " But instead she points to her crotch and her belly and tells you they are dark pink or red ? I think it was a come~on . A flirt. An invitation for you to think further about her... Link to post Share on other sites
Author coolindian27 Posted January 12, 2009 Author Share Posted January 12, 2009 But instead she points to her crotch and her belly and tells you they are dark pink or red ? I mean not exactly her crotch. Her hands were over the inner thighs and bikini line. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 Do women provoke men at work? Is the Pope Catholic? Only like since time began......it's the world's safest ego feed, especially now with all the sexual harassment laws. Enjoy the view Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 goes up the stairs without holding her skirt. Ooh err!!! The hussy!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 It's difficult to say if it was a come-on or not. I would have to see her expression and body language. She just might be one of those people who enjoys TMI, for the thrill and not from being sexually provocative. Some women AND men, like to tell all. Link to post Share on other sites
BoredPerson Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 That article is silly because I can tell you women in the low level salary brackets will be expected to flirt. The one in the higher brackets will have more power and autonomy so they won't have to. I had an interview at a company where a partner told me that is what the women are hired to do with the clients. Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Is this the same woman that filed a harassment complaint against you? Link to post Share on other sites
motive2002 Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Attention whores. Call their bluff and they'll leave you be. Link to post Share on other sites
boxing123 Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 That article is silly because I can tell you women in the low level salary brackets will be expected to flirt. The one in the higher brackets will have more power and autonomy so they won't have to. I had an interview at a company where a partner told me that is what the women are hired to do with the clients. Exactly why so many young pretty girls are in sales or other related fields. I hired a few myself, and they get results through flirting. They usually enjoy it, enjoy the money, and the attention as well. Link to post Share on other sites
BoredPerson Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Exactly why so many young pretty girls are in sales or other related fields. I hired a few myself, and they get results through flirting. They usually enjoy it, enjoy the money, and the attention as well. I must say the view was impressive. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Exactly why so many young pretty girls are in sales or other related fields. I hired a few myself, and they get results through flirting. They usually enjoy it, enjoy the money, and the attention as well. Imagine being a 300 lb overweight woman with a severe overbite and stringy hair trying to flirt with all the men . First off she is going to likely not make the top money as the hot office worker. Thats just a true reality for the obese female ( society much harsher on the O female than the O male ) So the size 3 petite blonde hottie knows how to work it in the office. All the men googly~eyed and eager for her attention. No way around it. Hotties score higher in earnings , attention and raises. Link to post Share on other sites
boxing123 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 In this day and age I am still amazed at how far women get in the professional world based on looks. I have actually known a couple women (extreme examples) that worked for large corporations, sat home, collected a pay check, and never worked because they were sleeping with a boss, CEO, or have in the past. If women really wanted equality, perhaps companies should have a no make up rule, no skirts, no cleavage showing, no heels, etc. Come to work, to actually work. Not flirt with "higher ups" or look pretty to try and keep a job or get a promotion. Link to post Share on other sites
BoredPerson Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 In this day and age I am still amazed at how far women get in the professional world based on looks. I have actually known a couple women (extreme examples) that worked for large corporations, sat home, collected a pay check, and never worked because they were sleeping with a boss, CEO, or have in the past. If women really wanted equality, perhaps companies should have a no make up rule, no skirts, no cleavage showing, no heels, etc. Come to work, to actually work. Not flirt with "higher ups" or look pretty to try and keep a job or get a promotion. Use it your advantage. Maybe one day you have all the good looking women flirting with you for promotion. You can make them get you coffee and then hire hard work young man. LOL. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Use it your advantage. Maybe one day you have all the good looking women flirting with you for promotion. You can make them get you coffee and then hire hard work young man. LOL. And this is from the man who has various threads complaining about his lack of career and being in a boring admin job. Who does he make coffee for??? Link to post Share on other sites
BoredPerson Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 And this is from the man who has various threads complaining about his lack of career and being in a boring admin job. Who does he make coffee for??? I'm not in an admin job !!! Let me tell you something. American women are queens of the double standard. They invented the double standard with the feminist revolution. American women - I feel bad for American men ! I really do. Kudos for you guys that you still have a national birth rate. Where I work everyone makes their own coffee !!!!!!!! Apart from maybe the director or CEO but I don't know I'll be unlucky if I ever see them twice. If someone asked me to make them coffee I would be like - OK ! Then I would make the coffee and spend a long time doing it but also make it very badly. Here we are complaining about sex being used as an unfair advantage. I find a creative way to say - it will all come off in the wash. And I am the one being personally attacked ! I'm actually not even working in an office. I am a male stripper and escort for high profile female clients. I sometimes clean office buildings in the nude for female dominated office parties. When I make the coffee the woman slaps me on the ass and says 'thanks honey' because that is what us male admins are good for. I won't even go into what I do for the Christmas party ! The women basically keep me around for sex appeal because it gives them encouragement to come to work to see a sexy young man like me. The person I make coffee for is my female boss. She is 45 with three kids and a stay at home husband that does not like her anymore. So we flirt, on and off all day long. I brighten up her day with my sexual antics. She is not using me for sex and we plan to go away on a trip together after she leaves her husband. Does not matter if she dumps me because I can sue for sexual harassment. Lawyers will be dieing to take on my case with my massive salary of $28,000 per year the pay out is bound to be huge ! Maybe even $400 MILLION dollars. Seriously... okay. Your bitterness is better placed away from me. I am pure an innocent and never hurt anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 I want to know if anyone here knows how hard it is to move up in the world. From admin like stuff or a job that is basically doing the work no one else wants to do, into something decent. Can we generally move up in the world or are we slotted somewhere for most of our lives ? Based on the type of place we start out ? I'm not in an admin job !!! Let me tell you something. American women are queens of the double standard. They invented the double standard with the feminist revolution. American women - I feel bad for American men ! I really do. Kudos for you guys that you still have a birth rate. . Really? How interesting? Didn't know that. I'm English. Link to post Share on other sites
BoredPerson Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Really? How interesting? Didn't know that. I'm English. And I am an Eskimo from the secret Ice Planet Zektrom 5. The one the government has been hiding in area 51 all these years. My secret is out and now the world knows. Quick ! To the news paper room ! Why would you try to put me down ? I am just a man trying to make it in a woman's world. If women use sex to get promoted, they deserve to be delegated to menial positions of a derogatory nature. The example should be set for professional women to act professionally. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Why would you try to put me down ? I am just a man trying to make it in a woman's world. If women use sex to get promoted, they deserve to be delegated to menial positions of a derogatory nature. The example should be set for professional women to act professionally. I do act professionally. You started this by suggesting women get by on their looks and are there to make coffee whilst men do the real work. I have even tried to help you in your other threads when asking about career options. Link to post Share on other sites
boxing123 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Funny story.. I dated an attorney that worked for a legal software sales company. The company revenue was HORRENDOUS, and if not part of a larger company, would have failed long ago.. She was very attractive, but never worked. She dated the CEO years ago, and he kept her on salary to avoid a sexual discrimination case. Well, turns out he was sleeping with 9, yes 9, other women at the company. All very beautiful, earning high salaries. I cannot believe this was some random case that is extremely rare. So yes, attractive women have a huge edge over men, and other women. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 I'm not in an admin job !!! Let me tell you something. American women are queens of the double standard. They invented the double standard with the feminist revolution. American women - I feel bad for American men ! I really do. Kudos for you guys that you still have a national birth rate. Where I work everyone makes their own coffee !!!!!!!! Apart from maybe the director or CEO but I don't know I'll be unlucky if I ever see them twice. If someone asked me to make them coffee I would be like - OK ! Then I would make the coffee and spend a long time doing it but also make it very badly. Here we are complaining about sex being used as an unfair advantage. I find a creative way to say - it will all come off in the wash. And I am the one being personally attacked ! I'm actually not even working in an office. I am a male stripper and escort for high profile female clients. I sometimes clean office buildings in the nude for female dominated office parties. When I make the coffee the woman slaps me on the ass and says 'thanks honey' because that is what us male admins are good for. I won't even go into what I do for the Christmas party ! The women basically keep me around for sex appeal because it gives them encouragement to come to work to see a sexy young man like me. The person I make coffee for is my female boss. She is 45 with three kids and a stay at home husband that does not like her anymore. So we flirt, on and off all day long. I brighten up her day with my sexual antics. She is not using me for sex and we plan to go away on a trip together after she leaves her husband. Does not matter if she dumps me because I can sue for sexual harassment. Lawyers will be dieing to take on my case with my massive salary of $28,000 per year the pay out is bound to be huge ! Maybe even $400 MILLION dollars. Seriously... okay. Your bitterness is better placed away from me. I am pure an innocent and never hurt anyone. I find your post incredible to believe. You are either exactly what you say you are OR you are a pathological liar in the worst sense. Please lets start with your first statement : Women are born beautiful and rightly so. So you can MATE with us and create babies ( assuming of course you are in your reproductive years ) The homely girl will hardly reproduce as she will find it harder to attract men. Now have you ever had sex with a hot female. ? If you HAVE don't knock the female for looking goooood ! Why do you feel bad for american MEN ? YOU mean in the workforce or the dating world ? Making coffee no big deal . Everyone should know how to make it and everyone from the Prez to the janitor should make coffee if they drink it. No ONE person should be pointed out to make coffee UNLESS their job title is " Coffee Maker at XYZ " If someone asked you nicely to make some coffee why would you make it bad ? Would you spit in it ? ( Now this is assuming everyone takes a fair turn making coffee. ( Seriously how hard is it make coffee ? ) There is a saying " Everyone wants something from someone . So if the male wants sex , he's going to get it . If the female wants a raise and looks good shes likley going to get the raise whether she works for it or sleeps for it. ( Not saying its right but it happens everyday in companies. ) The part about you being a male stripper for females. If this is true, then YOU obviously look good and you are USING your looks to strip naked and dance. If you are , on the other hand , an overweight pimple faced unemployed greaser sitting in front of the computer monitor lying about your life , well then convince me otherwise. Your part about having sexual antics with your female boss all day and that after she leaves her husband that you and her are going on a trip sounds like BS all the way around. Convince me of that too........ The part where you sue for $ 400 million...Your case would be no more worth one million tops but would cap out at $400,000 most likely. Who's BS' ing who here ?????? Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 Seriously... okay. Your bitterness is better placed away from me. I am pure an innocent and never hurt anyone. You're pretty mean to geologists, if I remember correctly. Link to post Share on other sites
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