Posco_Proudfoot Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 My SO and I are trying to work things out now. She has even suggested that we should consider a MC to help us solve some of our problems, since we obviously have some communication issues, and we both have issues with each other that neither can agree on. I think she spends too much and is horrible with money, where she thinks I have issues with pressure, has trust issues, etc etc.. What I have noticed is the missing intimacy. We're currently separated, but for some reason she is not comfortable even kissing me right now. I can't relate to this at all. We went awhile where we almost became roommates. She felt like I didn't want her anymore. But now that I do, she isn't responding. I don't understand it, and asking only gives me a "I just don't feel close to you right now". Is this something that takes time or is she just expressing her feelings and protecting herself from getting hurt? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Posco_Proudfoot Posted January 12, 2009 Author Share Posted January 12, 2009 I take it I either explained this badly or doesn't make much sense to anyone else? Not sure which. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 Do you really want to hear the answer? Link to post Share on other sites
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