Sweetmove Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Okay this is a very long story but it needs to be set up so you know what has happened. I came on this web-site about a week and a half ago looking for answers about what I should do with my girlfriend that had kissed her ex that she had “feelings” for. After the advice that I got from some people I decided to give her another chance because I really cared and loved this girl. She said that she loved me and wanted to have my kids some day, she also said she was very sorry; she even swore that she did not do anything else with this guy. However this Friday I came to realize what a lying bitch this girl really was. See the guy that she got with was one of my brother’s friends. I have known this kid for 3 years, but for some reason that really didn’t matter in this situation. I was having a little get together at my house when all of a sudden I get a phone call from… lets call him “Pete” he says “you guys are being bitches for not letting us come over” I told him if he didn’t kiss my girlfriend the pervious week then they might have been able to come over. I guess he wanted to get his ass beat that night because he started to scream on the phone that he had “****ed my girlfriend” and wanted to meet me at my house. I said no problem and I would be waiting for him. About 5 minutes later he rolls up to my house I saw him sitting in the back of his friends car… I asked Graz if he would roll down the window I don’t know what came over me at this point but I socked him right in his face. He started to cry and then starts to talk **** about my girlfriend and I… So I gave him another shot to the face this made the kid shut up real quick. Meanwhile all this was happening my ex was hiding in the bathroom. So I was left alone out front of my house and I asked “Pete” sooo did u really have sex with my girlfriend he says “yes and that he was very sorry that he was just really drunk” I believed him because he was crying and has always been scared of me so he had to tell the truth in that situation. After I had this little chat with Pete I went and found my girlfriend crying in the bathroom and I broke it off with her right then. She said that they never had sex and was getting pissed at me for believing Pete. This hurt me a lot because I really truly cared about this girl hell I loved her and I wanted it to work out, but I just couldn’t see me being with some one that could lie straight to my face. Her Best friend came up to me the next day making sure that I was okay and told me that she had talked with my ex and said, “if they did have sex she does not remember because she was extremely wasted.” I know that is most likely another lie. But I feel bad because I really don’t know what went on and I mean if she really did get raped then I would feel like a total ass hole for not believing her. However it’s very hard to believe someone that has hurt me like this. I really don’t know what to do at this point because I thought of her as my best friend and my lover.. I mean right now I hate her but something inside of me tells me that I shouldn’t be breaking up with her. Should I just forget about her?? how do I do so because this really sucks felling this way! And if I should try to get back with her how do I go about it because I have said some pretty awful things to her these past couple of days! Any advice on what I should do would be great!!! That for taking the time to read it! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 I think you should stay broken up with her. She does not need a boy who 'doesn't know what came over him' when he hit someone. That is bad news. Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sweetmove Posted September 23, 2003 Author Share Posted September 23, 2003 i knew what came over me the kid deserved to get hit i was extremely angry at Him for having sex with my girlfriend and then he was trying to at tuft so i had to do what was necessary. i mean i not a guy who is looking to fight i am very nice to people, i treated this girl like she was a princesses... i swear to u I'm not a mean guy !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted September 23, 2003 Share Posted September 23, 2003 the kid deserved to get hit Nobody 'deserves' to get hit. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sweetmove Posted September 23, 2003 Author Share Posted September 23, 2003 okay well i will remember not to hit people next time, i just really want to know how to get over this girl that i had cared so much about Link to post Share on other sites
2SidestoStories Posted September 23, 2003 Share Posted September 23, 2003 Move on. Don't dwell. Don't have any contact with her. Don't have any contact with "Pete." Link to post Share on other sites
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