rebe84 Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 So I met this great wonderful guy who was everything I wanted and had been searching for. The problem was we lived an hour and 10mins apart. He always wanted to see me but we couldnt b/c of the distance. We went to different colleges. Everything was going good, we had some difficulty b/c he wanted to be with me all the time. But this last week he started to have doubts and broke up with me. We were together only a month but I've never had a guy make me feel so good. He told me its not goin to work cause he's too busy with school and sports, the relationship stresses him out b/c he can't handle the distance. He also got into a fight the night before he realized he was goin to loose me..thats what he told me. He also was telling me that I made him the happiest he's ever been. I believe it still can work. I was his second gf. He's 3 years younger than me and I'm the first girl he's ever told that he loves and is inlove with other than his family. He told me before he hung up the phone that he is soo very sorry and is heartbroken..and needs some time to think. He also told me he knows he's going to regret this. I want to get back together with him. Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 So I met this great wonderful guy who was everything I wanted and had been searching for. The problem was we lived an hour and 10mins apart. He always wanted to see me but we couldnt b/c of the distance. We went to different colleges. Everything was going good, we had some difficulty b/c he wanted to be with me all the time. But this last week he started to have doubts and broke up with me. We were together only a month but I've never had a guy make me feel so good. He told me its not goin to work cause he's too busy with school and sports, the relationship stresses him out b/c he can't handle the distance. He also got into a fight the night before he realized he was goin to loose me..thats what he told me. He also was telling me that I made him the happiest he's ever been. I believe it still can work. I was his second gf. He's 3 years younger than me and I'm the first girl he's ever told that he loves and is inlove with other than his family. He told me before he hung up the phone that he is soo very sorry and is heartbroken..and needs some time to think. He also told me he knows he's going to regret this. I want to get back together with him. Any advice? Call him and tell him how you are feeling. Have a long discussion. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Call him and tell him how you are feeling. Have a long discussion. I disagree. He asked for time. He has doubts. Let him sit with the fact that he called it off for a bit. You can ALWAYS call him. But he really does need space, and he is freaking out, calling him may just put that much more pressure on. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I disagree. He asked for time. He has doubts. Let him sit with the fact that he called it off for a bit. You can ALWAYS call him. But he really does need space, and he is freaking out, calling him may just put that much more pressure on. Couldn't agree more. If he called it off... Then you need to refrain from contacting him. Give him a chance to miss you. If you call him, you'll only put more pressure on him and come off sounding desperate. If you don't call him, he'll have an opportunity to figure out what he is missing. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Call him and tell him how you are feeling. Have a long discussion. no I disagree too. This is the last thing he wants right now, and it would put the pressure on. He's asked for space. Let him have it. The less you chase, the faster he'll be on your heels...... Link to post Share on other sites
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