TheVerveHistory Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I'll try to keep it short... I went out with a girl for 7 months. They were perfect, we had the occasional argument but nothing truly serious and we always resolved it... as it stands, we both fell deeply in love. She asked me if I loved her and if I wanted to, not right at the moment, but one day move out with her if we were still together a year later... On a friday last week, I went to her house just to chat/hang out, and out of the blue she tells me she's not ready for a relationship, that she hasen't been fair or nice to me because of our small arguments, that she needs time to figure out things on her own etc. and ended it right there. I was devastated. I know I shouldn't have but I called a few days later. We talked for a good hour or so. We laughed about the break up, joking about it, and toyed with the idea of getting back together. She said she still loves and cares about me, still considers me her best friend, feels the relationship is worth another shot and felt absolutely horrible for what happened the few days before... she kept saying "I wish I did this instead of talking to you that day!" Plus I've never heard a girl apologize so much in my life. I told her I'll give her her space and she said in a couple of weeks she'd call back to see where "we're" at... I haven't contacted her at all for a week now, and I'm wondering if it's worth it. I do love/care for her but I do not want to wait around forever and be hurt again... I understand she's probably confused at the moment but still... I haven't e-mailed/facebook/txt/called at all for about 6 days now. Link to post Share on other sites
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