chrismcg Posted September 23, 2003 Share Posted September 23, 2003 I broke up with my girl after she left for camp (she's a counsellor) and things deteriorated between us. It hurt so much because going into the summer things were going so great. Basically we were able to pick apart superficialities of our relationship and now we're split. She broke up with my at the start of August - and pretty much avoided me until a few nights ago. I had written her a letter - expressing how I'd felt, and she listened to it. She told me that she loved me, but she wasn't in love with me - I don't know what this means - can anyone clarify? She says she fell out of love over the summer and frankly now I'm more confused than ever. Link to post Share on other sites
sonofhud Posted September 23, 2003 Share Posted September 23, 2003 Its a nice way of saying she doesnt want to be with you. You are not her type. Link to post Share on other sites
GIZMO Posted September 27, 2003 Share Posted September 27, 2003 I myself heard those same lines.. " Honey, I love you, but I am not in love with you.. What that means is that she cares about you and will always have a special place in her heart for you, but she does not feel the passion anymore. She does not feel the need to need you like she once did. She wants to move on with herself. I am in the same boat buddy. Trust me, I understand what you feel like. Sometimes, people like her just need some space and after time she will be able to answer questions with in her, to find out if she really is in love with you. Remember this saying " Its better to know what love was, then to not have known love at all". Good luck and we are all here for you.. Link to post Share on other sites
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