lilmrcheerful Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 I would like to know more about emotional cheating and when it becomes so, say, between two people who are just "friends" but are they really? What kind of boundaries are crossed when in this situation? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 Let's pretend you're the person in an emotional affair. The conversations you have with a third-party. Could you talk about the same things with your spouse in the room? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilmrcheerful Posted January 16, 2009 Author Share Posted January 16, 2009 Let's pretend you're the person in an emotional affair. The conversations you have with a third-party. Could you talk about the same things with your spouse in the room? Yes, that's what I read as well, in other words: "Emotional infidelity begins with the exchange of personal information. As the people involved get acquainted, the information exchanged becomes more personal." I think maybe some people don't really realise this or still believe that an affair is only by a means of being physical with them. Link to post Share on other sites
Makemesmile Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 Yes i think the person doing it does not think they are cheating as nothing physical has happend. However if that person is being secrative, telling lies and telling the person suspecting something is wrong that THEY are the one with the problem. This is the time to realise these people/person they are having contact with are more then FRIEND. In my case my exBF is adamant he has done no wrong, and i'm paraonoid! Link to post Share on other sites
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