Gunny376 Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 Why do they always trade down? Link to post Share on other sites
seibert253 Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 Why do they always trade down? Was thinking the same thing Gunny. I just don't get it. Link to post Share on other sites
TrustInYourself Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 Women are ruled by emotions. Lol. Go men. Link to post Share on other sites
Author toddro Posted June 30, 2009 Author Share Posted June 30, 2009 Well got a call last night from the Ex...Buddy of the family has a condo at the beach and this past week was his week. So last weekend the kids and I stayed up there and then the plan was for her to come with the OM up there this just past weekend. That way we both get to enjoy time with the kids... Well anyway, my buddy's roommate was up there with his kid and he and my ex are in the same line of work. They had met once before and had lots to talk about, mostly because of the line of work they do. The guy is pretty cool, has a nice personality and can be real funny at times. He has a job, is a single father like me and well...to be honest..is attractive. I don't know what happened but I can picture it in my mind, like I said my ex is very sociable and outgoing. I talked with my Buddy the day my ex and her OM arrived and he said it seemed to him that they were not getting along...He said it looked to him like everything that came out of the OM's mouth just pissed her off. I said "well, whatever...none of my business, I just called to check on the kids." Fast forward to yesterday, I get a call from my Buddy and he says I need to talk to my ex. I say ok, he says be easy on her because he knew I was a little upset at the way she had been talking to me all weekend. Pretty much being an ass to me for no reason, which she does when something is bothering her. I ask is she ok, is her health in jeopardy? HE says I'll let her tell you.. I say alright. She calls about an hour later and asks if she can bring the kids home a day early, I say sure whats up. She says her and the OM have broke up...he got pissed that she was talking with this other guy and slept in the car that night...then called ( wait for this) his Daddy to come get him...LMAO! This jerk is 50 years old and because he got his pee pee stepped on by a real guy he has to call his Daddy to come pick him up from the sleepover. So now she is scared to death, five months pregnant and involved with a little no job ( something else she complained about to my buddy, he has not worked in eight months) bitch boy who not only cant hold his own stones around real men...but cant muster a single friend to come pick his sorry ass up from the beach..so he has to call his Daddy. This would all be funny as hell if my kids did not have to be a part of it. Link to post Share on other sites
mark982 Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 sounds like she's about to drop the" i'm sorry i screwed up "bomb on you. and how much she really loves you,misses you etc. but really means,i need a daddy for this baby that ain't yours. tread carefull my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
LisaUk Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 Yeah, sorry...but one of the line items in our divorce papers was I get my balls back. :laugh::laugh: So well put that's made my day! Link to post Share on other sites
Author toddro Posted July 2, 2009 Author Share Posted July 2, 2009 Well, its quiet...nothing new I guess, nothing earth shattering anyway. Not sure of the situation with her and dick head but I do know they are still spending time together...my guess is and seems to be the norm for close friends and family is she is plotting her escape. When they are around me its all a big song and dance so I don’t see them together as they really are. I do know my best friend says that she is getting tired of his ass quick...but she is five months pregnant and having complications already...so she has not cut him loose. It’s like they are both bull****ting each other. I could care less if it were not for my kids being wrapped up in all this; I swear I regret the day I ever laid eyes on this woman. I have never seen someone so completely out of touch with reality, so consumed by their own wants and desires, and so worried about putting on appearances. It’s sad. She was not always like this; I don’t know what happened to her. It’s got to the point now that I don’t want my daughters growing up to be like her...and that’s bad; forget what happened between us...people fall in and out of love all the time. But what kind of example is she setting for the kids. Oh sure she is now working her ass off, staying sober and taking care of her ****...don’t get me wrong...but she is letting this prick completely control and manipulate her...simply because she is scared to be alone.... I wonder what happened to the confident, got her act together woman I knew 10 years ago? Who is this shell of a person? It makes me sick to my stomach watching him control her, I have yet to meet a single person ...seriously...that has spent five minutes in this guys presence who likes him... I just don’t get it, if she must date why can’t she date a guy with a shred of character? Sigh.... [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted July 2, 2009 Share Posted July 2, 2009 God tod why do you care, she is your EX wife!!!! She left you, she got what she wanted, If I was you I'd just sit back and enjoy the fireworks because she'll leave him for someone new because that's in her nature! She was already talking to the other dude while there with him so what does that say about her. she thrives on drama, she is mentally broken inside her damn head! LOL, live your life and let her go. She's pregnant with his baby, I'd feel sorry for the baby to be raised with a father like that! 50 yrs old with no damn job? WTF? How's he gonna support this kid, is she gonna do it by herself? Trust me your shining bright but you should really be indifferent to her stupidity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author toddro Posted July 2, 2009 Author Share Posted July 2, 2009 God tod why do you care, she is your EX wife!!!! She left you, she got what she wanted, If I was you I'd just sit back and enjoy the fireworks because she'll leave him for someone new because that's in her nature! She was already talking to the other dude while there with him so what does that say about her. she thrives on drama, she is mentally broken inside her damn head! LOL, live your life and let her go. She's pregnant with his baby, I'd feel sorry for the baby to be raised with a father like that! 50 yrs old with no damn job? WTF? How's he gonna support this kid, is she gonna do it by herself? Trust me your shining bright but you should really be indifferent to her stupidity. I care because she is the mother of my kids, and the person my daughters are going to most emulate in their adult lives, who they are going to draw their sense of what it means to be a woman from. I know what your saying, really I do cuda..and you’re right coming from an uncompromising stance... but I learned, and this is just from my own experience in life and childhood, that hate will eat you inside. What she did was ****ed up, don’t get me wrong and I hate what she did...and yes I wish all of this would have never happened....but I want the mother of my children to stand up for herself. Link to post Share on other sites
SRV Posted July 2, 2009 Share Posted July 2, 2009 I care because she is the mother of my kids, and the person my daughters are going to most emulate in their adult lives, who they are going to draw their sense of what it means to be a woman from. I know what your saying, really I do cuda..and you’re right coming from an uncompromising stance... but I learned, and this is just from my own experience in life and childhood, that hate will eat you inside. What she did was ****ed up, don’t get me wrong and I hate what she did...and yes I wish all of this would have never happened....but I want the mother of my children to stand up for herself. You don't need to hate her, that's not what Chrome was saying, but being indifferent. To the point that the choices she makes, the person she is and becomes in the future should not make you even blink an eye. It is what it is, she makes her choices, the only person you can control and have control over is you. You can nuture your daughters to be upstanding and have good character and morals as I sure believe that you are doing, but at the end of the day, when they come off age they will make their own choices. At this point, in their formative years, you can only teach them and help them distinguish right from wrong, so that when they are old enough they will not disappoint and make you proud that you did a good job in raising them. Forget her, forget the choices she makes, forget how she is living her life at the moment as long as it does not negatively influence of affect your daughters, and if it does, you have the court system to address the issues if you feel aggrieved. Link to post Share on other sites
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